Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Finding Hidden Assets

I promised one reader a while back an article on finding assets. Due to the press of business, I was not able to comply wiht that request but instead offer How to Find Hidden Assets -- Part 2 from Divorce and Family Law in Tarrant County, Texas

This is part 2 of an excellent article written by Warren R. Shiell in the Los Angeles Divorce and Family Law Blog with tips about how to find hidden assets. As mentioned before, it is not unusual to suspect (often correctly) that some assets are not being disclosed. Sometimes, there are clues that an attorney or other layman can find, but other times, it is necessary to bring in an expert forensic accountant to uncover various assets. The following section of the original post by Warren R. Shiell has suggestions about some of the types of financial records that can produce evidence or clues about undisclosed assets.

"The following checklist of research items may assist in determining the whereabouts of hidden assets or if, in fact, they exist at all:

"1. Financial Statements – Any loans from lending institutions require sworn financial statements to be filled out. In most cases, the borrower is trying to impress the lending institution with the extent of assets and may exaggerate these. Looking back five years or so at these statements may put you on the trail of assets which are now unaccounted for, or which show valuations substantially greater than what is now claimed.

"2. Personal Income Tax Returns – A review of personal Federal and State income tax returns and attached schedules filed during the past five years may indicate sources of interest or dividends. The returns may also reveal unknown sources of income or loss from trusts, partnerships, or real estate holdings. You should also review W2’s, 1099’s, 1098’s and K1’s.

"3. Corporate Income Tax Returns – If one spouse is the principal owner of a closely held corporation the corporate tax returns should be reviewed for the following: a. He or she may be manipulating his or her salary by taking less pay and then taking loans from the corporation to make up the shortage. He or she may be charging personal expenses to corporate accounts, which will later be reimbursed or charged to the officer’s loan account.c. Corporate returns should also be reviewed for excessive or unnecessary retained earnings (undistributed profits). These may be disguise available profit distributions or an artificially low salary level.d. Reimbursement of prior capital contributions or repayments of loans to the corporation may also provide hidden cash flow to your spouse.

"4. Partnership Income Tax Returns - Reviewing several years of partnership income tax returns (IRS Form 1065) may reveal sudden changes in the partnership interest or distributions. Such changes often occur at the time of a divorce and then compensating adjustments are made after the divorce is completed.

"5. Canceled Checks and Check Registers from Personal, Partnership, and Corporate Accounts - While time-consuming, it is always revealing to go over all the canceled checks and bank statements from personal accounts for the past few years, and post the expenditures to different columns under utilities, entertainment, loan payments, and so on. You will learn the amount of total expenditures per year, which sometimes exceeds income, and you will have a better feeling for cost of living and where budget cuts should be made. In terms of hidden assets, you may come across canceled checks for the purchase of property, which you never knew, existed. It is important to check off the canceled checks against the appropriate bank statement to make sure that you have all of the canceled checks. It is possible that certain checks were removed before they were delivered to you. For larger amounts deposits and withdrawals you should review the back and the front of the checks.

"6. Savings Account Passbooks - Acquire the passbooks for any savings accounts open during the past five years or more. Look for any deposits or withdrawals that are unusual in amount, or in pattern. A monthly withdrawal or deposit of money in the same odd amount may reflect mortgage payments or income receipts from sources that you are not aware of.

"7. Security or Commodity Account Statements - If one spouse has been buying and selling stocks or bonds or dealing in commodities, the broker with whom he or she trades furnishes monthly or quarterly statements indicating all transactions. A review of these statements going back a few years could reveal the existence of securities of which there was no knowledge or could raise questions as to the disposition of the sale proceeds. Cross checking securities transactions and bank accounts by date and amount will usually verify the source or disposition of the monies involved. If the securities are sold and the proceeds are unaccounted for, you can be sure the money is out there somewhere.

"8. Expense Accounts - Very often, a corporate employer will allow employees a great deal of leeway in their expense account reporting. A spouse may take advantage of this by exaggerating or even falsifying business expenditures. The employer maintains records as to expense account disbursements to the employee over the year with monthly detail. A check of these records will indicate the extent to which the employee is able to “live off” the expense account.

"9. Deferred Salary Increase, Uncollected Bonus, or Commissions - You should always determine whether a salary increase is overdue, when it will be forthcoming, and how much it is. Employers are sometimes sympathetic to their divorcing employees and willing to bend the rules slightly to defer salary increases, bonuses, or commissions in order to suppress apparent income. Ultimately, these increases, bonuses, or commissions must be paid to keep the corporate books straight, and the employer will rarely lie when put under oath or forced to make a written statement on the subject. Sympathy goes just so far."



A non-custodial parent not a potted plant

First off, a caution. From what I read in New York Divorce and Family Law Blog's A Non-Custodial Parent Retains Authority in Decision-Making: Dad is not a Potted Plant I think the case has to be read narrowly rather than broadly

Judge W. Dennis Duggan dismissed a contempt proceeding, against a non-custodial father who had changed the dosage of his fifteen-year-old daughter's medication during his parenting time. The father, a doctor, believed that his daughter’s prescription was inappropriate.

Judge Duggan stated that "While it is the general principle that the custodial parent possesses the sole authority to make medical decisions for her child, this does not relegate a non-custodial parent to the status of a potted plant."

. . . .Furthermore, he stated that the parent who is caring for a child, whether or not he has sole custody, "has a residual authority to make decisions in the child's best interest that are called for by the immediate circumstances--even if those decisions might overlap with or intrude upon the other parent's 'sole custody' authority.

Rather than unilaterally taking it on himself to change the prescription, the father, with the benefit of hindsight, probably would have been better off, at least demonstrating that he, at least, consulted with the mother and the child’s treating physician before unilaterally acting. That said, over-medicating a child is an exigent circumstance, requiring immediate action.
Read that last paragraph closely.  Exigent means "requiring immediate aid or action <exigent circumstances>".  Think emergency.  Do not think run of the mill, ordinary matters.  I think any judge in any state would find it hard to find a father acting in his child's best interests in preventing harm to child where there is an emergency needing immediate action.

As for non-custodial parents, common sense and common decency lead me to think that father was wrong in not calling mother. Surely, they both had cell phones.  Sounds to me they need to read the articles on how to deal with one another post-dissolution that I have been publishing this month.

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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Choosing a Divorce Lawyer

Some very good points from MOGILEVSKY Law Firm, P.A. in its How To Choose Your Divorce Lawyer:

# Do you practice family law exclusively? If not, what percentage of your practice is family law?
# How long have you been practicing?
# What is your retainer (the initial fee paid — or, sometimes, the actual contract you sign — to officially hire a lawyer)? Is this fee refundable? What is your hourly fee?
# What is your billing technique? You should know what you’re paying for, how often you will be billed, and at what rates.
# Approximately how much will my divorce cost? The lawyer will only be able to provide an estimate based on the information you provide — and your realistic estimation of how amicable you and you spouse are. If you think your case is extremely simple, but your spouse’s lawyer buries your attorney in paperwork, you can expect your costs to increase.
# What do you think the outcome will be? Remember, you’re looking for truthfulness here — not to be told a happy story. A lawyer who tells you things you don’t really want to hear is more of an asset than a lawyer who guarantees you anything you want.
# If your spouse has retained an attorney, ask your prospective lawyer whether he or she knows this attorney. If so, ask: “Have you worked with him or her before? Do you think the attorney will work to settle the case? And is there anything that would prevent you from working against this attorney?”
# What percentage of your cases go to trial? You actually want to choose a lawyer with a low percentage here — a good negotiator who can settle your case without a long, expensive court battle.
# Are you willing and able to go to court if this case can’t be settled any other way?
# How long will this process take? Again, the answer will be an approximation.
# What are my rights and obligations during this process?
# At a full-service firm, ask who will be handling the case: the lawyer you’re interviewing, an associate, or a combination of senior and junior lawyers and paralegals?
# Should I consider mediation? Ask whether your case — at least in the initial stages — might be a good one for mediation.
Also give a look at An Experienced Family Law Attorney – PRICELESS! from The Ohio Family Law Blog

Look, folks, you can go through the Yellow Pages but you got to know what you are looking for.  You can even compare prices.  But know what you need to be looking for.

Regardless of the attorney fees, you need to know the kind of services you will need.  They you will need to find the attorney's experience with providing the services you need.

Then ask about fees. Do not just ask what is the attorney's hourly rate - that does not answer your real question.  And what is that real question?  You want to know what the case will cost you.  You need to ask that exact question: what will the case cost. 


How to Lose a Custody Case Fast

Consider from TN Mother Shoots Father in Presence of Children and Thereby Hands Father CustodyFlorida Divorce * Child Custody * Domestic Violence Law Lawyer as another example of how people create the facts of a case:

Tennessee Father and Mother are divorced. Father and Mother have two daughters together.

Mother allegedly shoots Father in the leg. In the presence of their two daughters.

If for no other reason, Father wins temporary custody of their two daughters.
Hard to imagine a better example of what is not in the children's best interests.

I was thinking what if mom had a good reason for shooting the father and decided that I ought to see what had happened since the above blog post.  After all, what if mom had a good reason?  In Indiana, this might give an opening for a third party to seek custody.

Google turned up the following:
Nurse Shoots Ex-husband to Exorcise Demons
Her bizarre motive for the shooting was revealed when police uncovered her diary in which she detailed the shooting:
"Terry is filled with three demonic spirits. One is assigned to me, one to each of my children. The purpose is to destroy us. The only way Terry will stop trying to destroy us is if the spirits exit his body today. I will have to create three portals of exit, that way they can leave."

Tina Loher drove her two daughters, ages 5 and 7, to the clinic and left them in the parking lot while she went in and confronted her ex-husband.

Court records show that the Lohers are involved in an ongoing dispute over the children.

 Tina Loher Creates A Portal To Release Ex’s Demons
Driving from Knoxville to Chattanooga with her girls (5 and 7 years old) in the vehicle with her, she allegedly pulled in front of his chiropractic office, left her children in the car and marched on in for a little confrontation. She pulled out a .38 caliber and created the first portal…in his groin. He states she was speaking in tongues. When the gun fired and Dr. Loher was hit, his staff and patient hauled ass as he fought back. He doesn’t exactly know if he knocked her unconscious because as soon as he hit her, he tended to his wound in an attempt to control the bleeding. (and gauging by her mugshot, he got in a pretty solid punch – something he may have been wanting to do for some time)
Employees from a neighboring business pulled the girls inside while police sorted out the crime scene. Per one Prudential employee, the oldest daughter asked, “If my mom has murdered my dad? Is she going to go to jail? Where is she going to go?” A DCS employee stated the 7 year-old knew exactly what was going on and what her mother intended to do. The grand protector of her children discussed her elaborate demon ridding plans to those two young girls. I truly believe in sharing realistic things with children but I also tend to believe that material should be age appropriate. I’m not confident the discussion of blowing portals in their father via a .38 caliber weapon is age appropriate but children grow up so fast these days.
Dr. Loher underwent surgery to repair the damage caused by the gun blast and was able to make a teary appearance when his ex-wife was due in court. Putting forth the assertion that his ex was tenacious by nature, he feared that spirit would over-ride what ever logic she may possess and she’d set out to finish the job. With this information, the judge must have concurred and he increased her bail from $140,000 to $600,000 and she has been charged with attempted first-degree murder and two counts of reckless endangerment.

ONLY ON 3: Signal Mtn. Shooting Victim Talks to Eyewitness News has some background but not much meat.

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Monday, September 28, 2009

I Get Interviewed Again

Lee Rosen of Divorce Discourse was kind enough to interview me  about family law and blogging.  You can listen to the podcast is here:


Sex, Lies, Videotape - and Family Law Cases

Something from the news and out of Florida by way of Modern divorce and The Divorce Saloon that might be a bit of a shocker.

Who gets custody of pornographic photos man posted of wife online?
Cajamarca, 39, an investment consultant, would not discuss the dispute, except to say that his estranged wife knew he was publishing some of the photos.

He took them with her consent before their marriage went sour, according to the suit.

Pornographic photos can create major contention in divorce
The wife argues that she did not give her husband permission to publish the photographs and she only intended for him to see them, not the whole world. But the thing is, there is nothing in writing that says he is prohibited from sharing the photos with others. There is nothing in writing that limits the scope of his ownership of these pictures. When she purported to knowingly pose for these and knowingly and willfully make whatever videos or whatever the man now has on her, she was assuming the risk that her future reputation would be tarnished if the photos ever got out. Cause she ought to have known the divorce rate in this country and she should have done her calculus and said, you know what? I love you right now, you love me right now, we intend to stay married till we are 102, but since I have no way of knowing that this is how this nuptial will actually play out, there are a number of things I am not going to do. And the top of that list is making anything pornographic with your arse, cause if we ever get divorced you may publish all my business on the Internet and destroy my name and reputation in the process.

But she didn’t do that. She was a willing participant. And now she bears the consequences – and it is usually the wife who will be most tarnished by this, unless, of course, the husband is running for President of the United States. Women are judged much more harshly in scenarios like this. And we are most embarrassed by it. So why do this to yourself in the first place? Why participate?

I mean, don’t get me wrong. Some people are photographed, etc, and they do not know that an untrustworthy partner is setting them up in this way. That is different. But when you knowingly and willingly party to this? I have zero sympathy when that filth gets out. I really do. Sorry. But I don’t understand how anyone can make these tapes, pictures and videos (JUST CAUSE THEY ARE MARRIED) and then cry foul when it winds up on the Internet with a partner turns on them.
Many years ago - back when Internet access was by dial-up and when VHS was the norm instead of dead - I had a custody case that had similar facts.  It was a great embarrassment to my client and an even greater embarrassment when her ex-husband gave the tapes to the person seeking custody.  For the custody case, she was fortunate that there was no impact on the children.

A tip for anyone who decides to get naughty with their digital cameras, think long and hard before you decide to exercise your inner Martin Scorsese.  Remember Paris Hilton and all the other videos that have made the Internet and the news.

Second tip, if you and your significant other decide to indulge in home film making  - keep control over the images.  Preferably, do not save them.

I also noticed - after writing the above - that Florida Divorce & Family Law Blog has a brief article on this case and this subject here.


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Sunday, September 27, 2009

Is Divorce Too Expensive?

Today I write for those who want to get divorced but lack the money to do so  - or so they think.

I write about how to find affordable legal services.  The underlying idea here is to connect you with the services you need and explain why you need these services.

You need these legal services because your finances are too constrained to make a mistake in your divorce that will cost you more than if you had originally hired a lawyer.

Here are the general suggestions:

  1. If you do not have real estate or children or joint debt, the Indiana Supreme Court has created forms for pro se (do-it-yourself) divorces.  You can access them here. (There are also forms for contested divorces).
  2. If you have real estate or children or joint debt and have no disputes between yourselves, then you need to find a lawyer.
  3. If you still feel a need to unleash your inner Perry Mason, go here.
Here are some suggestions about finding a lawyer:
  1. See if there is a local pro bono program - check with the courts or local bar association for information.  If no luck, then go here.
  2. Go to the Yellow Pages - online or hard copy - and start looking for divorce lawyers.  
  3. Do not go by what you read online about attorney fees, most articles I see come from the coasts and are not what you will be seeing in Indiana.
  4. What you want to know are the total costs for an uncontested divorce. 
  5. How to find out what are the total costs for a divorce lawyer:  1) ask if they charge a flat rate for uncontested divorces or only charge an hourly rate;  and 2) if they charge an hourly rate what they estimate for the total amount of time.  (I have people who call up all the time, ask me what is my hourly rate, and when told then hang up.  Knowing only my hourly rate did not tell that person what would the cost of hiring me.)
  6. If the cost is still too high, find out if the lawyer will provide unbundled services.  I have only just begun to do this in my own practice and I do not think there are many of us doing this in Indiana - so far.  Then ask how the lawyer breaks down the work and the fees.  (For why I am offering these services go here.)
Notice that in the above, I assume that the issues that can come back on you with problems are uncontested, but for contest case the questions to put to the lawyer remain the same.

Still want that thrill of being Alan Shore?  Then go here. Read it all very closely.

I want to credit Is Divorce Becoming a Luxury? with giving me the inspiration for this  post.

How One Indiana County Allocates Its Family Law Cases

While preparing a divorce for Shelby County, Indiana, I read up on the Shelby County court's Local Rules.  If you have read my , you will know why the following caught my eye:

LR73-AR00 Rule 2 Local Caseload Plans:
I. Caseload Allocation

A. Criminal Cases
1.¹ Criminal case allocation shall continue to operate as specified in Amended Joint Local Rule No. 1
B. Civil Cases
1. Juvenile Cases
a.² All Juvenile cases (JC, JT, JD, JS, JM, and JP) shall continue to be filed in Shelby Superior Court No. 1
2. Remaining Civil Cases
a. All Civil Plenary (CP) cases shall be filed alternately in Shelby Circuit Court and Shelby Superior Court No. 1
b. All Domestic Relations (DR) cases shall be filed alternately in Shelby Circuit Court and Shelby Superior Court No. 1
c. All Reciprocal Support (RS) cases shall be filed in Shelby Circuit Court.
d. All Protective Orders (PO) cases shall be filed in Shelby Circuit Court
e. All Small Claims (SC) shall be filed in Shelby Superior Court No. 2
f. All remaining types of civil cases (AD, AH, CT, ES, EU, GU, MH, MI and TR) shall be filed as requested by the initiating party.
More generally, The Indiana Judicial Conference proposes changes to the whole of how Indiana organizes its courts.  See Judiciary announces court reforms from The Indiana Lawyer Daily for news on this.
The plan calls for state funding of the trial courts in order to allocate resources fairly. Currently, the state pays for some salaries and court programs and county councils pay for other salaries and programs. Figures aren't yet available on the impact of funding changes.
I get to add this 27 page report to my reading list of the new Child Support Guidelines.

More Working on Post-Divorce Happiness

I say often enough to clients that the law in the family law area is simple enough but what makes matters very complicated are the very things the legal system cannot deal with: the emotional and pyschological aftereffects of a relationship gone sour.

Here are some articles on how to deal with these aftereffects.  Given them a good read.

5 steps to post-divorce happiness - More magazine
Here are the top 5 things you need to do so that you can achieve a positive outlook and keep the emotional baggage from undermining you after divorce.

1. Acknowledge that you are grieving and deal with the emotions.
2. Put your children’s best interests first.
3. Learn about your finances - develop a monthly budget, understand your assets and liabilities.
4. Think about how you would like your life to look like after divorce and start doing some of those things now, to help you get there.
5. Prepare for the friend dynamics. It’s not about you, but how friends react to divorce itself.

PlentyOfDivorcees.com
First, don’t train yourself to hate your ex so you won’t yearn for him or her. Hating your ex causes more problems than it’s worth, and hating them could hurt future relationships. There are a lot of dating websites where you can browse the members in your pajamas. You’ll quickly forget your ex, and find someone new.

People tend to look at a relationship ending as a failure, and beat themselves up over it by self-loathing. Don’t do that. It doesn’t matter whose fault it is why the relationship ended. Sort out your own feelings and enjoy the freedom of self-discovery. Keep your friends close to you. This will help you forget your ex.

Thirdly, stay practical. Don’t go on a spending spree, get drunk, or go on a wild date to make your ex jealous. Keep eating a healthy diet and exercise. Throw away all the reminders of your ex and stay busy. Treat yourself to a makeover, mud facial, or have a massage. Look at it as a fresh start with a better you and brighter tomorrow! Your meant to be will find their way to you soon enough.

I also like these 9 Tips to Guide You from Divorce and Family Law in Tarrant County, Texas, specifically these:
1. Don't do things to just annoy your spouse. That's not to say you need to agree to everything your spouse wants. What this refers to is choosing not to antagonize your spouse by demanding the picture he or she has always loved, or by saying things you know will embarrass or humiliate your spouse, etc. Everyone knows buttons they can push -- Just Don't Do It! You may get some brief feeling of pleasure, but your spouse most likely will respond similarly, and maybe at a higher level. There's no real benefit to escalating the conflict.

2. Don't respond when your spouse does something just to annoy you. Take the advice that you may have given kids. Just ignore it and s/he will probably quit doing it. Going back and forth fighting with each other is childish and doesn't help you progress toward a final settlement. You may feel that you are entitled to respond in kind, but it really doesn't help you. To avoid the unpleasantness you sometimes (or often) experienced during your marriage, you have to be the adult and break the cycle of conflict.

3. Keep the children out of the middle. No messages sent. No using them as a pawn. Think long term here. The disputes are between two adult parents, not the kids, but the kids can be damaged by the adults' fighting. Do what you can to keep the kids out of the middle and you will have a happier family.
7. Pay attention to your lawyer more than you do your family and friends. Your friends can give you advice for free, but you get what you pay for. They don't really know all the facts of your case and don't know the law as well as your attorney does. They also don't have the working knowledge of the judge, the local court system and the other lawyer that an experienced attorney will have. Your friends may be well intentioned, but they often can really cause problems by providing bad advice and pushing the wrong actions. Attorneys aren't perfect, but they do generally have a better long-term perspective than friends do.

8. Figure out your goals -- what's really important to you -- and what you need to do to accomplish them. And then take action. When your life is in transition, it's a good idea to set a target, your goals, and plan how you can accomplish them. Think about it some and put your goals in writing. They don't have to be perfect -- you can revise them as you work on them. You may try one thing and then decide that something else is more appealing or important. What's important is to have a purpose and a plan, and then take action. Get help from trusted advisers, if you need to, but get started thinking about the future in specific, concrete ways. Stop just reacting to what's thrown at you. Start planning and initiating your own activities.

9. Don't limit yourself to just standardized solutions to problems. Open up your mind and be creative so that your needs can be met. Setting lofty goals is sometimes daunting, but use your imagination and come up with your own creative solutions. Don't limit yourself. Be open to trying out "ridiculous" ideas. Sometimes they work best and they can be fun.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Indiana Laws on Grandparents Rights

Indiana's law on grandparent's rights consists of two parts:  statutes and case law.

Look at IC 31-17-5 for Indiana's statutory law on grandparent's rights.

The case law presents a bit of a problem.  For cases handed since I began this blog, follow this link.  Reading these cases will lead you to older cases and these will need to be hunted down in the Indiana appellate court archives.  You will find these here.

Paranoia and Divorce

I am not sure that I am giving Marilyn Stowe's Divorce is an emotional rollercoaster – but are you paranoid? because it addresses a topic is not easy to address and an issues that does exist. 

Divorce causes emotional turbulence, which can affect the minds of both parties and their supporters. Profound love can turn into profound hate. Most people come through the divorce process bruised - but recover. But in a few, thankfully rare cases, those with controlling personalities may find it difficult to let go. Supported by their ‘group’, they may stalk their former partner playing mind games, determined never to stop until the spouse is worn out, exhausted and beaten.

All this of course, is why we have our Courts of Justice. The judges are there to level the uneven playing field, to identify the victim and to protect them from the perpetrator. Our courts are a bastion of strength, and their function is to apply justice.
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Likewise, the emotional rollercoaster that is divorce encourages different people to respond in different ways. Innocent spouses can be accused of harassment and misconduct. The accuser may then refuse to allow the other parent to see a child. Thus the paranoia continues to play out, all the way into the courtroom, with the hapless child caught in the middle. Sadly, this is not uncommon behaviour in my experience.

In other cases, paradoxically, what appears to be delusional or paranoid behaviour is actually a perfectly valid and healthy response to a sinister situation. In such cases the persecutor will stealthily, relentlessly and deliberately increase the pressure and the cost - financial and emotional - upon the victim, while going to great lengths to make others believe that the victim is to blame. When the victim complains, the complaints are dismissed and he or she is wrongly criticised.

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Friday, September 25, 2009

Protective Order News - Madison and Marion County Pilot Program

A bit delayed in getting this out, but those interested may want to take a look at  Marion & Madison Counties Lead Effort to Improve Protective Order Registry

Marion and Madison Counties are serving as pilot counties for a new public access component of the protective order registry. The expanded registry will allow domestic violence advocates to complete required forms online at domestic violence shelters. Once the forms are completed, they can be printed and taken to the court clerk for filing. Since the information is already in the registry, the clerk can focus on getting the information to a judge to review. When a judge issues a protective order the information is sent to local, state, and federal law enforcement automatically and electronically. This pilot system is expected to save time and increase efficiency for the courts. It will also allow a person requesting a protective order to start the process with the help of a trained domestic violence advocate.

In 2007, Marion County had 4,177 new protective orders filed and Madison County had 1,264 new orders filed during that same period. Those thousands of requestors obtained their protective orders by going to the County Clerk’s office where they filed their petitions requesting a protective order. The process can include waiting in line and waiting for clerk staff to help them properly complete the paperwork.

The expanded registry is being piloted in Marion and Madison Counties and six other counties across the state including Allen, Elkhart, Grant, Tippecanoe, Saint Joseph, and Wabash Counties. It is being implemented by the Supreme Court’s Division of State Court Administration Judicial Technology and Automation Committee (JTAC). Justice Sullivan, who chairs JTAC, believes the expanded registry is one of the most significant accomplishments of the Committee, “We are helping to save lives with this partnership. This new public access function is being added after suggestions from domestic violence advocates and local clerks. By working closely with Indiana State Police, Marion and Madison County domestic violence advocates, and our state legislature we have developed a system that will do more to protect victims.”

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The Indiana Supreme Court received a $135,235 grant from the Indiana Criminal Justice Institute to improve the electronic Protection Order Registry.  The money has helped pay for the development of the enhanced registry site.  The Protective Order Registry is used in 92 counties.  More information is available at www.in.gov/judiciary/jtac/programs/poregistry.html.



How a Client Can Screw Themselves Up

Thanks to Judith's Divorce Blog and her A BIG EGO for this very succinct description of how the client can damage themselves regardless of who they have for a lawyer:

Becoming entrenched in your position prevents compromise and when misguided conceit sets in, a marriage hurtles towards oblivion and a case towards a final hearing. Deaf to sound legal advice, arrogance can result in an otherwise unnecessary judicial determination of matters that could have been settled months before with the same outcome and at a fraction of the cost.

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Reminder about income taxes and family law

New York Divorce Law Blog had a good post on this subject, IRS TAX EXEMPTION FOR CHILDREN AND DIVORCE AGREEMENTS

In 2008, the IRS amended Code Section 152(e), which addresses child dependency exemptions. The changes affect the procedures and means for claiming the exemption. The new rules should be carefully followed to ensure that the exemption is taken by the parent entitled to it, and that the appropriate language is contained in divorce or separation agreements to reflect the current state of the law.

1. A divorce agreement or court order can no longer be used as a substitute for Form 8332. The parties must actually complete the form.

2. Beginning in 2009, the custodial parent is the one with whom the child resides the greater number of nights during the year, regardless of the terms of the divorce decree.

3. Beginning in 2009, the custodial parent can unilaterally revoke the release of a child exemption for calendar years 2009 and beyond regardless of when the release was made.

In light of these developments, all non-custodial parents who plan to claim the exemption must obtain a signed Form 8332. In addition, divorce or separation agreements should address the potential for a release being improperly revoked after it is given.
Remember the Internal Revenue Service has its forms on its Forms and Publications page.

Along similar lines is this from FOX 4 Finance: Divorce - WDAF
Many parents negotiate the allocation and use of the personal exemptions for the children on the tax returns. Usually, the parent in the higher tax bracket should claim the children to get a bigger benefit for the exemption (unless it gets phased out).

But keep in mind the ramifications of using the personal exemption: under the rules for education tax credits, only the parent who claims the child as an exemption AND pays the tuition can claim the credit. Also, a child tax credit can be lost if the child is claimed as a dependent by a parent who makes too much money (credit is phased out at $75,000).

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Thursday, September 24, 2009

Prenuptial Agreements - Some Less Traditional Ideas

I think Smith Family Law Center has some interesting ideas its article, Prenuptial Agreements

But this just scratches the surface of what is available for inclusion in prenuptial agreements. Less traditional uses of a prenuptial agreement include:

* establishing how a family business will be formed, capitalized and run during the marriage, and then laying rules for the continuation or dissolution of the business upon the termination of the marriage;
* setting forth the goals that the family will work together toward achieving and the values that they will maintain in good times and bad;
* determining in advance and at a time of no rancor how the family will raise their future children (religious upbringing, forms of discipline, etc.)
* establishing how and under what circumstances the spouses will jointly own and manage property and investments.

The items that can be included in a prenuptial agreement are generally limited only by the imagination of the parties and the skill of the drafter.
Reading over all this, I am struck how some of this seems to verge more into the territory of a marriage contract.  Others leave me wondering how a court will enforce these provisions - but then that will depend on the actual writing (drafting) of the agreement.

Your Legal Corner: Prenuptial agreements has a more restrained approach:
The contents of a premarital agreement may include: disposition of property that is held separately, jointly, upon death, separation, marital dissolution or when a certain stated event occurs. You may also include if a will, a trust or other agreed arrangement should be made in an effort to carry out the terms of the prenuptial agreement. 
As long as it does not violate public policy, it may be written into your prenuptial agreement. Because prenuptial agreements are situation specific, a Family attorney will be able to guide your detailed questions or concerns.


Finally, Smith Family Law Center has what amounts to the best argument for a prenup:
The fact that no consideration except the marriage itself is necessary to formalize a prenuptial agreement makes it attractive to the financial secure, and the fact that it is extremely flexible and forward-looking makes the prenuptial agreement attractive to the rest of us. In the past, when divorce was rare, prenuptial agreements were seen as only appropriate for the super wealthy. Now they can be seen as prudent for nearly everyone


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Indiana Child Support - New Guidelines and Controlled Expenses

I have yet to dive into the new Indiana Child Support Guidelines but All Things Family Law has started with his

Indiana Divorce & Family Law Blog: New Child Support Guidelines - Controlled Expenses
One very positive change was that the guidelines are now clear as to who must pay for the 'controlled expenses' associated with raising a child, such as the winter coat and the basic school costs. Furthermore, the definition of 'controlled expenses' should help clear up disputes about who pays for school books and basic clothes. Parents will decide who pays for these costs by designating a 'primary physical custodian,' or if they share equal time with the child(ren), they will need to designate someone as the person who will pay the 'controlled expenses'.



If You Have Children, Why Do You Not Have a Will?

Following Michael Jackson's death, much was written about his not providing for a guardianship in his Will.

Ohio Estate and Special Needs Planning puts the argument for parents getting a Will quite well:
Every parent of a minor child should designate, preferably in a Last Will and Testament, a guardian and two alternate guardians for their child or children. (If you do not have a Last Will and Testament, put your wishes in writing.) Do not assume that your children will go to the person you desire—if others petition the court for guardianship, it will be the judge who decides where your children go.

Factors to use when deciding who to name as a guardian include that person’s age, financial stability, lifestyle, religious preference, geographic location, and parenting style.  Read this article for more help in choosing a guardian.  Feel free to contact me if you have any questions
Toronto's Globe and Mail goes at the issue in more detail with its Five steps to protect your kids after you die :
1) Appoint a legal guardian for children under age 18.
Choose someone to care for your children in the event that you and your spouse pass away. It should be someone you know and trust. Make sure that someone is willing, so ask them beforehand. Although this sounds like an easy step, Ms. Plant says many couples have a difficult time reaching a consensus on who that guardian should be. Without a specific provision in the will, children in Canada fall under the care of The Office of the Public Guardian and Trustee, until someone is legally appointed to look after them.

2) Consider setting up trusts, so they receive inheritance over time.
If you have a young children, you might not want them to receive all of their assets at once. The danger is that at the age of 18, they could decide to drop out of university and blow the money on sports cars. You can address this in your will by stretching out the money in a trust, with specific terms and conditions on how and when this money will be received. This will give them the chance to develop some financial maturity. Because financial provisions for the care of your children are also included in the will, you could dictate in the trust how to pay for their education or health care.

3) Address future use of the family home by children and/or guardian.
If parents pass away suddenly, the practical issue of where the kids are going to live will arise. Parents should think about whether the appointed guardian has enough space in their home or is it best for the kids to continue to live in their childhood home? For example, a grandparent that is taking on three kids may have already downsized and have only one bedroom. In that case, it might be better if the guardian moved to the home of the children and lived with them there.

4) Communicate your plans to your children to avoid surprises.
For older children who can understand the concept of a will and what it means to inherit assets, it can be useful for them to know what funds are being placed into a trust and when they will get them. This will prevent them being caught by surprise. Although this can be a difficult topic to broach, parents may also want to let older children know who they have chosen as their legal guardian. For example, a single parent with a terminal illness might want to let their children know what provisions they have established upon their death.

5) Keep your will current.
Some people have wills that have not been changed in 15 or 20 years. In these cases, the documents are often no longer appropriate and fail to deal with the present stage of their life. What if parents have had another child, purchased more assets, or changed their mind on the legal guardian for their kids? Wills need to be relevant to current circumstances, ages and stages. Normally, people find they need to update and change their will every seven to 10 years. Ms. Plant's advice is to review it every three years.
Another good article comes The Georgia Wills, Trusts and Estate Planning Blog, 5 Legal Documents Every Dad Must Know About & How to Make Sure They Don’t Fail
Regardless of the size of your bank account, if you’ve got a child at home who depends on you, you need to have a comprehensive Kids Protection Plan® (KPP) in place to ensure her well-being and care in case you can’t be there.

A KPP begins with naming legal guardians to raise your children if anything happens to you and their mother. But, that’s just the beginning. A comprehensive KPP will also name local friends or family as guardians for the immediate/short-term care of your children so that the authorities never have to take your children out of your home and into the care of strangers. With a KPP in place, you’ll carry an ID card in your wallet listing the names and addresses of your immediate/short-term guardians as well as provide written instructions to all of the people who care for your children, such as babysitters and schools. Finally, a KPP will confidentially exclude anyone you know you would never want to serve as guardian of your children to ensure there are no court-room battles over your child’s care and will also provide detailed instructions about things like health care, education, discipline and your values, so your children are raised the way you want, no matter what.

For those thinking that this will entail great cost, I suggest that they call some lawyers and ask.  In my area, I do not think anyone charges much more than $150.00 for a Will.  If that is too much for a bit of peace of mind, I really do not know what to say.

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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Updating Online Resource: Co-Parenting

dadshouse requested that I change this post to change the original linkage.

Thanks to New Hampshire Family Law Blog for the heads up on the blog Dad’s House.  Those without custody of their children ought to check out this blog - and so should custodial parents.

Also some thoughts about co-parenting from The Smart Divorce® Weblog:

Sending Love, My “Different-Functional” Family

Also, here’s an article which appeared on the Maria Shriver’s First Lady of California, Women’s Conference website:

http://www.californiawomen.org/just-who-will-i-be/

Children need to be provided with the understanding that, although their parents live in two separate homes, they are still a family. While the family might have some differences than one with both parents living together, this family is still the same in many ways – they are loved by both parents, they play and have fun like all children, and these children feel good about themselves – all very important messages.

New Indiana Court of Appeals Case - Divorce Judgment Liens and Real Estate

Switching property after a divorce has to take into account any judgment liens from the divorce.  Such is the outcome of Marriage of Lobbs (September 17, 2009).

The Court of Appeals quoted extensively from the trial court's findings:

9. That the final payment of $50,000.00 owed by [Husband] to [Wife] was a judgment lien on the marital Real Estate and its existence was known to Kenneth [and] Elsie when they accepted title to the marital residence from [Husband].
10. That a second judgment lien on the marital residence in the sum of $3,000.00, existed in favor of C. Thomas Billings, Attorney at Law (“Billings”), [Wife‟s] trial attorney[.] (Article II, Section 2.6, page 10).
11. That Kenneth [and] Elsie paid the judgment lien owing to Billings when they received title to the marital residence from [Husband] but failed failed [sic] to pay the judgment lien owing to [Wife] when they received title to the marital residence from Kevin.

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1. That from the date of the entry of the Decree of Dissolution of Marriage on July 5, 2005, [sic] until paid, Melissa is the owner of a Judgment Lien against [Husband] in the sum of $50,000.00.
2. That as of July 12, 2008, the balance due to [Wife] on her Judgment Lien will be $61,000.00, $50,000.00 in principal plus $16,000.00 in judgment interest (8% per annum for three years).
3. That [Wife‟s] Judgment Lien was prior in time and therefore prior in right to the title to the Real Estate obtained by Kenneth and Elsie from [Husband] on May 3, 2006.
4. That Kenneth and Elsie had actual knowledge of the existence of [Wife‟s] Judgment Lien and are not bona fide purchasers without notice.

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JUDGMENT
1. That the Real Estate shall be sold by the Sheriff of Hancock County, Indiana at public sale after due notice as required by law to the highest bidder and the proceeds of sale shall be apportioned as follows:
A. To the costs of sale to include advertising thereof;
B. The sum of $61,000.00 to [Wife] in satisfaction of her judgment lien;
C. The sum of $3,000.00 to [Wife] as attorney fees;
D. To the Clerk of this Court for ultimate distribution to any party which establishes a lawful right to said proceeds.

Kenneth and Elsie argued that no lien existed because of no recording with the County Clerk (opinion at 11).
The Court of Appeals dismantled that argument:
A judgment lien is purely statutory. ABN AMRO Mortgage Group, Inc. v. Am. Residential Servs., LLC, 845 N.E.2d 209, 216 (Ind. Ct. App. 2006). Indiana Code Section 34-55-9-2 provides that “[a]ll final judgments for the recovery of money or costs . . . constitute a lien upon real estate and chattels real liable to execution in the county where the judgment had been duly and [sic] entered and indexed . . . .” In Franklin Bank and Trust Co. v. Reed, 508 N.E.2d 1256 (Ind. 1987), reh‟g denied, our Supreme Court determined that where one spouse is ordered to pay the other spouse money in installments, such final judgment automatically creates a judgment lien, “except where the exercise of the court‟s discretion would specifically eliminate it.” Reed, 508 N.E.2d at 1259. Indiana Code Section 31-15-7-8 provides that upon entering an order for disposition of property, the dissolution court “may provide for the security, bond, or other guarantee that is satisfactory to the court to secure the division of property.” The court, however, “may exercise its inherent power and eliminate a judgment lien only by positive action.” Id.

...But “upon a decision of the court, the court shall promptly prepare and sign the judgment, and the clerk shall thereupon enter the judgment in the Record of Judgments and Orders [(“RJO”)]. . . .” Ind. Trial Rule 58(A) (emphasis added). In other words, entry of the Decree in the RJO is a ministerial act to be performed by the Clerk. The RJO, also commonly known as the judgment docket, is controlled by the Clerk, not by the parties. Wife was not required to cause the Decree to be entered in the RJO.

Even more damning was the husband's parent's knowledge of the Decree of Dissolution:
But, here, the controlling and dispositive fact is that the Lobbs had actual notice of Wife‟s judgment lien. Before buying the former marital residence, Kenneth Lobb had a copy of the Decree and knew that the Decree awarded Wife $167,745.50. Kenneth Lobb paid to Wife on behalf of Husband the $50,000 awarded to her under the Decree for her execution of the quitclaim deed. And he was aware that the Decree ordered Husband to pay Wife an additional $50,000 within ninety days of her vacation of the former marital residence. A person with actual notice is bound by the terms of a valid instrument, even when that instrument has not been recorded so as to provide constructive notice. See KeyBank N.A. v. NBD Bank, 699 N.E.2d 322, 327 (Ind. 1998). Because the Lobbs had actual notice of the unpaid order to pay Wife money in the Decree, they are bound by the Decree. See id.

(Opinion at 13).

The Indiana Court of Appeals also reiterated a point I discussed in Indiana Divorce Case Law:  Liens and Property Division and  Indiana Case Law:  Divorce, Property Division and Judgment Liens:
...Again, “where one spouse is ordered to pay the other spouse money in installments, such final judgment automatically creates a judgment lien, „except where the exercise of the court‟s discretion would specifically eliminate it.‟” Reed, 508 N.E.2d at 1259. The dissolution court here took no steps to eliminate the creation of a lien. And the Lobbs had actual notice of the Decree‟s money judgment in favor of Wife and that Husband had not paid all of that judgment. Thus, the unpaid award in the Decree constitutes a judgment lien in favor of Wife enforceable against the Lobbs....

Opinion at 14.

The buyer also raised a bona fide purchaser argument which the Court of Appeals destroyed in a footnote (footnote 11 at page 14):
The Lobbs also contend that they purchased the former marital residence as bona fide purchasers without notice and without any fraudulent intent and, as such, that an execution levy is ineffective as to them due to the lack of a lis pendens notice. But, again, the Lobbs had actual notice that Husband still owed Wife an additional $50,000 under the Decree. Therefore, they are not bona fide purchasers and, thus, they have not shown that they are exempt from execution levy. In sum, this case does not involve a good faith purchaser of the property for value and without notice, and our holding is limited to situations in which the purchaser of the property has actual knowledge of the unsatisfied judgment lien.

Indiana's Child Support Lien Network

Believe it or not, not all lawyers know all things about family. Following a link back from a Google search lead me to the Child Support Lien Network for Indiana. In twenty-two years, I never dealt with this program but then I doubt very many have. Here is how it describes itself:

CSLN was established to match delinquent non-custodial parents (NCPs) to insurance settlement and workers compensation claims, specifically for the purpose of intercepting these moneys to bring NCPs current on their child support obligations.

A secure Internet website is one of the means available for exchange of this data. We believe you will find the website easy to use. The data is also available through electronic interface. It is also our hope that this will facilitate your company’s ability to “match” the delinquent non-custodial parent information with your company’s insurance claims.

Indiana Code IC 31-16-15-19 allows the Child Support Bureau to issue an income withholding order for any lump sum payments that a delinquent NCP may receive. If a ‘match’ is found between a delinquent NCP and your insurance company, you will receive an income withholding order. This income withholding order should be honored at the time a claim is settled. A copy of this income withholding order will also be sent to the NCP.

If you read closely, the program operates within a narrow area - insurance settlement and workers compensation claims.  I suspect personal injury and workmen comp attorneys know this better than do family law attorneys.

The site also offers CSLN FAQs

Has Public Opinion Changed About Cohabitation?

Chicago Divorce Lawyer Divorce Lawyer Blog's Cohabitation Concerns indicates a change:

An article was published in today’s USA Today entitled “Couples study debunks ‘trial marriage’ notion of cohabiting.” It reports on a new study about the changing attitudes towards cohabitation.

As the title states, more couples are choosing to live together not to test their relationship in preparation for marriage, but simply to spend more time together. Many couples see living together as part of the dating relationship, and may not be considering marriage.

If an unmarried couple chooses to buy a home to live in together, and the relationship ends unexpectedly, neither will have the protection of property provided by Illinois marriage statutes.
The state of Illinois does not recognize common law marriage, so no protection is provided to unmarried couples, even if they have been living together for many years. Also, the statutes in Illinois do not recognize same-sex marriage, so that protection is not available to same-sex couples.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Changing How We Should Be Practicing Law

Do you think all a lawyer does is create a form to be a lawyer?  Then you need read to the end.

If you think all you need for your case (divorce, support, custody, visitation, grandparen't visitation) is a legal form to do what a lawyer does, then you definitely need read to the end.  It will probably save you a lot in attorney fees.

Getting the general public to understand what lawyers do, the value of legal services is a problem. Recently, I decided to make a stand on this issue and start unbundling my family law services.  I wrote about this here.  So far the response has been only one e-mail and a request for how much I would charge for reviewing documents.  I have had no response to my fee quote ($50.00).  I am left with the impression - perhaps unfounded and maybe well-founded - that the writer thinks that not worth the cost.  Which is too bad.  Within the minuscule amount of information she gave was contained a problem that will probably result in post-divorce litigation. 


When I returned to private practice back in 2003, I had ideas that document automation posed a great change in how we should practice law.  Writing this blog sharpened some of my thinking on the subject. by giving me a view of what the public thinks.

Lee Rosen of Divorce Discourse published Stop Selling Documents, Start Selling Advice, or Quit that comes close to crystalizing some of these points I have been thinking about:

We get calls from price shoppers sometimes. “How much is a separation agreement?” they ask. We explain that the agreement itself is a small part of the process. The larger issue, and the important part of our representation, is the advice we give about what the agreement should say along with managing the process and the negotiation.

We explain that they’ll divorce once. We, however, have been through thousands of divorces and we’ll help them avoid the mistakes we’ve seen others make.

“But what about the agreement? How much does it cost?”

Sometimes it’s exasperating.

But, realistically, some people want the document, not the advice.

I have the same type of telephone calls.  We call them tire-kickers.  Between the telephone calls and analyzing the Google searches that bring some to this blog, I have come to think that most of the public thinks all they need to do their case is a legal form.  I wrote a bit about this in Free forms, Thoughts for the Do-It-Yourself Crowd, and Unbundling My Services where I likened legal forms to bombs.




Law21.ca's The electric law firm reinforces these ideas on a more general way:

So how might a law firm give away products while selling services? Jeff Carr has observed that lawyer work falls into four categories: content, process, judgment and advocacy. The first two are well on their way to commoditization; the latter two remain the high-value and near-irreplaceable purview of lawyers. The day might soon arrive when firms publish and automate their legal knowledge, document assembly and document review process free of charge, over the internet, to anyone who wants them — but will charge a monthly retainer fee for the personal judgment, advice and representation that animates those documents and processes and provides real value. Wilson Sonsini’s term sheet generator is a step in this direction, but so are child support calculators and PCT calculators. The tangible product is the giveaway; the value, and the profit, are in the service.

Getting a legal form and knowing what to do with it are two different things.  What I and other lawyers provide is the knowledge.  Creating the document plays only a small part in providing legal services.  I cannot understate my agreement withMr. Rosen and Mr. Furlong on this point.

I offer this thought:  get the form online if you want, but get a lawyer to make sure you have not just screwed yourself

Somehow, the Bar needs to educate the public about the value of our services.  I know that presupposes that the general public has an interest in being educated as consumers of legal services. 

On the other hand, the Bar needs to rethink how what it does provide to the general public.  The current recession makes this a necessity for all of us.

More on Using School Information for an Indiana Custody or Relocation Case

Although The Anderson Herald Bulletin's ISTEP+ scores show wide gaps among schools pertains to Madison County, this sort of same information is available for other schools.

ANDERSON — Three of Madison County’s five largest school systems performed at or above the state average on ISTEP+ English and math results released Wednesday by the Indiana Department of Education.

South Madison had the highest overall test scores for school corporations in the county, followed by Frankton-Lapel and Alexandria schools, all of which met or exceeded the statewide average in math and English.

Meanwhile, Anderson and Elwood schools on the whole continued to underperform statewide averages on standardized tests given to students in grades 3-8.

None of the school systems approached Superintendent of Public Instruction Tony Bennett’s goal of 90 percent of students passing ISTEP+.

New elements of the ISTEP+ make comparisons to previous years difficult.

ISTEP+ was administered in spring instead of fall, as past tests were. ACS interim Superintendent Lennon Brown said the tests measure student aptitude at their current grade level, whereas past ISTEP+ tests measured student achievement at the grade immediately below their current level.

Also, science testing was expanded to include grades 4 and 6, and a social studies test was given for the first time in grades 5 and 7.

Corporationwide, Anderson Community Schools students had a pass rate of 58.5 percent on the English and language arts portion of the test, well below the state average of 70.8 percent.

In math, ACS students averaged a pass rate of 60.2 percent compared with 72 percent for the average Indiana school system.
I think it could be useful for those seeking information on the qualities of a particular Indiana school.  See my Using School Information for an Indiana Custody or Relocation Case for what I wrote earlier on this subject.


English Tycoon Sues Ex-Wife For Raising Children Not His

I often need to make the point to my clients that a person can file anything but success is a different matter. I have the same opinion having read The London Times' Tycoon sues his ex-wife after discovering children were not his

The millionaire businessman is demanding unlimited damages of more than £300,000 from his ex-wife and her new husband, including the cost of bringing up the two children he believed were his for more than a decade.

The man, who was the woman’s first husband, raised the two children as his own — with no clue that they had been fathered by his wife’s lover.

He accuses the pair of fraudulent misrepresentation and deceit, and says he has not been allowed to see the two children since 2006.
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The wife and her lover resolved between them to claim the two younger babies were the millionaire’s natural children, and were involved in a joint enterprise to induce him to accept paternal and financial responsibility, the writ claims.

They did nothing to dispel his erroneous belief about the two children’s paternity, the writ alleges.

The writ details a series of personal questions apparently asked by the woman’s lover at a New Year’s Eve party in 1994, including: “How does it feel to have a son that was close to death?

“Are you and your wife going to have more children? Where does your second son get his lovely curly hair from? Yours and your wife’s is so straight.”

In August 1995, the tycoon’s wife carried out a pregnancy test and told him he was going to be a father again. Her daughter was born in 1996 and her husband was registered as her father.

In 1997, three employees commented on the uncanny resemblance of the tycoon’s daughter to a child born to his business associate — the man alleged to be having an affair with his wife.
I cannot see the same case getting any traction here.  Take a look at my Can a man disestablish paternity in Indiana? for some of my reasons.

Monday, September 21, 2009

For The Indiana Family Law Attorneys: English Family Law Wiki

Thanks to John Bolch'sThe Family Law Wiki: Update for pointing out the existence of an English family law wiki.


I have written before about wikis here.  I still think this is a good idea for Indiana lawyers to take up and now we have an example of how to do it.
Those who cannot see the sense of a wiki open to the public ought to take a look at Free and the GP

People are getting their legal information off of the Internet.  Those people are our potential clients.  Go back and read my Free forms, Thoughts for the Do-It-Yourself Crowd, and Unbundling My Services for more on this point.

I see a wiki backed by, say, the Family Law Section of the Indiana State Bar, as providing solid, trustworthy information to these potential clients.  I should also think that those who aid in creating the wiki should get public acknowledgment of their contributions.  The public and the Bar both receive a benefit.

Now who will start the ball moving?

Marriage Contracts and Pre-nups

I offer a bit of exotica from Relationship Reality Why marriage contracts are good for both spouses. Unless you are familiar with Robert Heinlein's science fiction or is a Libertarian, I doubt many Americans think about marriage contracts.  Hence, my calling this exotica:

A marriage contract is more detailed than a pre-nup in terms of what is expected from each party. It addresses specifics such as financially supporting a spouse who wants to further his or her education after marriage, the decision whether or not to have children, the responsibility of jointly incurred bills, and the detailed duties of both husband and wife, including the subject of sexual rights. These are just some of the many issues you will find in a marital contract. You decide what to put into it. It is a legally binding document of what each person will bring to the marriage table and what she or he expects from the other.

Marriage contracts have a distinct place in history; similar to a contract drawn up by the professional matchmakers of the Middle Ages, they are believed to have been originated by the Egyptians over two thousand years ago. There are some interesting ones that deal with privacy and scheduled intimacy.

One of the more interesting contracts was one drawn up between Jackie and Aristotle Onassis. Their contract had one hundred seventy issues outlined. Allegedly, sex was something that had to be scheduled like an appointment, with a twenty-four hour pre-request. Living arrangements were also explicit. Separate residences for each spouse on the Greek island of Skorpios, as well as staying at different hotels when on vacation, were negotiated into the contract.
It seems the idea got kicked around in Germany a few years back.


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Sunday, September 20, 2009

Divorce War Stories

When I first read Great divorce tips: What to take with you when you go, I thought there was no place for it on this blog.  Then I thought a little humor never hurts.

Getting divorced? Here are some true stories of divorce from the book "You Can Keep the Damn China!' And 824 Other Great Tips on Dealing with Divorce" (Hundreds of Heads Books, www.hundredsofheads.com, $13.95), straight from people who've lived it:
When you sell the house, don't tell the real estate agent that you are getting divorced, especially if it's a bitter divorce. That's because they'll let people know you're a motivated seller, and buyers will offer you less. You and your soon-to-be ex will both get more money if you present a united front to the agent. When we were house-hunting ourselves, my wife and I had been encouraged to bid low on properties where the sellers were getting divorced, so we knew better when it was our turn to sell under the same circumstances. - J.K., Los Angeles, Calif.
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A Child Support Scam

I suggest reading Beware This Child Support Scam from The Hattiesburg Divorce Lawyer Blog. This is the first that I have heard of this and it may not have hit Inidiana.  As if divorced parents did not have enough problems.



Does Where I Got Married Matter When I Want to Get Divorced?

Where you got married has nothing to do with where you can get divorced.  Where you live determines where you can get divorced. 

Go back and read my Indiana Divorce - The Residency Requirement for an explanation of what residency is needed to get divorced in Indiana.

For example those who get married in Indiana and move their residence elsewhere cannot get divorced in Indiana.  Notice that word residence.  Hoosier military personnel who do not change their residence can file for divorce in Indiana.

I bring this up because recently I have two different inquiries with this same exact question.  I hope this will answer future questions.

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Saturday, September 19, 2009

Using School Information for an Indiana Custody or Relocation Case

I propose not to so much write about how to use school information but to point out two recent sources of information.  Another, not mentioned here, are our ISTEP testing scores.

The Herald Bulletin - SATS up at ACS, but lag state, national scores
Randall Lee, director of accountability for Anderson Community Schools, said the improvement comes as even more students took the test last school year — 238 compared with 229 the year before.

Lee provided details of ACS’s performance on the Scholastic Aptitude Test, which many colleges and universities use as a guide for student admissions. Among them:

u Math: ACS’s average score was 485, an increase of 13 points. Anderson High’s average: 476, an increase of 20 points. Highland High’s average: 491, an increase of 6 points. Indiana average: 507, a decrease of 1 point. National average: 515, no change.

u Reading: ACS: 496, up 2 points. Anderson: 463, up 8 points. Highland: 474, down 3 points. Indiana: 496, unchanged. National: 501, a decrease of 1 point.

u Writing: ACS: 454, up 7 points. Anderson: 456, up 16 points. Highland: 455, unchanged. Indiana: 480, a 1-point decline. National: 493, a 1-point decline.

Each section of the test has a possible 800 points.

Indianapolis Magazine published an article on the Indianapolis area schools that might be found here.