tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1442020469207898141.post7081374943558000012..comments2023-11-01T06:57:39.647-05:00Comments on Sam Hasler's Indiana Divorce & Family Law Blog: More on PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome)Sam Haslerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09412534508956647438noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1442020469207898141.post-20098856006056544672008-11-27T12:01:00.000-05:002008-11-27T12:01:00.000-05:00Yes here it is on a Thanksgiving Day and I will no...Yes here it is on a Thanksgiving Day and I will not be getting a call from my daughter now 23 years of age. I have been fighting PAS for more than those years. Its been severteen since I last saw, talked to my daughter, or touched her. Her mother got pregnant on purpose. It was a way to control, she thought, the end of her marriage to her then husband. The husband got the three children of the marriage. The youngest was only four. I felt so sorry for her and tried to get her mother to appreciate her need. Her mother used to brag about how well she knew her body, knowing the moment she ovulated she would say. I was a needy person and very naieve as to the pathology she had within herself. When she was four months pregnant I had started talking to her husband as I had began to understand her very well. He told me she had told him the same lie thirteen years before right after they got married. He had wanted to finish his education. She got pregnant saying her diaphram had gotten a hole in it. She continued getting pregnant for all those years twelve more times she had bragged. But with a weak cervix, she trotted to the doctor to get it sewn shut. That was the day I learned she was pregnant with our daughter. Imagine getting divorced and trying like hell to keep another pregnancy in the midst! Her mother did those things mentioned in the article and so much more. On the first court hearing where I wa trying to get our daughter she did a thing I have heard associated with Alienators- she brought an entourage of people many of them vicious too as witnesses for her. She had a vicious, sick sponsor for her AA program. <BR/><BR/>I could go on and on and on. Dont ever tell me PAS does not exist and I am so happy that this site is here, apparently represented by some of the same people that are in courtrooms daily. Beware of those who reject PAS. One of them the Justice for Children group in Houston, Texas, even founded by a lawyer who had worked for CPS, is one such group. They are in DENIAL and they are sexist. Hard to imagine right? But when a person understands the symptomology of addiction the many places it is found begins to show how these disparate circumstances begin to connect. One book that showed me so very much is by Anne Wilson Schaef, When Society Becomes An Addict, Harper and Row, 1986.<BR/>Robert GartnerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com