Good Thoughts About Child Centered Divorce

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Child-Centered Divorce: Learning from the Mistakes of Others

Not surprisingly, the first two years of divorce are the most diffuclt. In some cases it takes an average of three to five years to really "work through" and resolve many of the issues and emotions that come to the surface. For some, the effects of divorce last many additonal years -- or even a lifetime -- if not dealt with appropratiely. Taking steps toward a child-centered divorce can dramatically impact the negative effects of divorce on all members of the family. It will help everyone to move through this time rather than merely letting "time heal all wounds."

Children who may have witnessd a troubled marriage and family life may greatly benefit from observing their parents now working out a reasonable and respectful post-divorce arrangement. This positive and mature behavior will affect a child's adjustment more than any other factor.