Sunday, July 19, 2009

Collaborative Divorces It Is Better to Collaborate Than Fight

Less expensive in these days of recession, too.

Two articles today that I am combining into one with the theme being less expensive divorces.

First, from Domestic Diversions comes Happy divorces: using collaborative divorce to avoid more trauma:


Smart Money shows how making joint decisions can cost less and feel better.
Aleksandra Todorova writes (excerpt):
The goal of collaborative divorce is to avoid that. “In a collaborative divorce, the decisions have to be made by the couple,” Stoner says. The two sides and their attorneys meet together and talk until they reach an agreement everyone deems fair. They agree to provide all information — such as financial records — voluntarily, rather than having their lawyers gather evidence. As a result, collaborative divorce can be significantly less expensive, Stoner says. Costs vary depending on the case, but while a typical litigated divorce could run as high as $150,000, collaborative would be closer to the $15,000 to $20,000 range, according to the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP).

From the UK Telegraph comes Fast-track separations for couples who agree:

Last night, Mr Justice Coleridge announced that such orders could now be approved within a couple of days.

He took the unusual step of reading out a judgment in which he had previously ruled that collaborative law agreements could be brought before the duty judge assigned to hear the day’s urgent cases.

Provided every aspect of the case had been agreed and the hearing would last no more than 10 minutes, all that was needed was a day’s notice to the court and a chance for the judge to read the papers overnight.

“I think every conceivable encouragement should be given to parties to negotiate by this method,” the judge said in a case called S v P.

How much is it worth just to fight for the sake of fighting?

Saturday, July 18, 2009

State Joblessness Up - Child Support Issues

Losing a job means no income and that hits at a several child support issues. And Indiana continues to lose jobs.

The Indianapolis Business Journal reported State joblessness edged up in June, and The Muncie Star Press reports an even higher unemployment rate there: Unemployment hits 11.7 percent.

If you lose your job, this gives you grounds to file a child support modification petition. Do not say that you cannot afford to do this. Failure to pay your child support can lead - probably will - to a contempt affidavit. The ultimate penalty for contempt is jail.

For those needing a child support modification because they have lost their job and who live in Madison or Delaware Counties, please feel free to contact me at 641-7906. My office will work with you on fees.

What Marriage is Not

What’s Wrong With Marriage In America: Expectations! from Maryland Fathers Right Blog reviews “The Marriage-Go-Round,” noted sociologist Andrew Cherlin's “The Marriage-Go-Round,” noted sociologist “The Marriage-Go-Round". It is a long article but worth reading. I caught myself wincing more than once as several items hit home. Here is the conclusion, and I cannot quibble with a single point:

The most profound thing I ever read was this: that the most authentic human experiences cannot be reduced to symbols. That’s what words are, symbols. And intimacy is the single most authentic human experience we can know. It’s not in his kiss. It’s not in her words. It’s in the choices he or she makes for you in small moment, after small moment, stringing down the years of your time together.

Put that on a Hallmark card? It’ll never happen. Wouldn’t sell. But if more Americans looked for that, instead of a status symbol, or an emotional babysitter and took their time to be sure that’s what they were both giving and getting, there would be a lot less wrong with marriage in America.

You Die, What Happens to the Children?

Once more I am posting an article about guardianships. This time from Massachusetts Estate Planning and Elder Law Blog. See, this problem is not one limited to Indiana or to Michael Jackson's children. I do like the point made in What to Do When You Can't Decide

By not choosing a guardian of your children you are deciding that a judge is really the best person to decide what will happen to your children, and any money that they inherit, if you pass away. (If you can't think of anyone to name as guardian, go read this great post

by Oregon Attorney Candice Aiston.) Which family members would step up to take that role? Is it someone you want? Then name them. Is it someone you don't want? Then name someone else.
If you want more information about guardianships, please give me a call at 765-641-7906.

Friday, July 17, 2009

The Soldiers' and Sailors' Civil Relief Act, and Family Law

Still going back through the drafts and I think I was definitely wrong in not getting to Alabama Divorce & Family Law Attorney Blog's Divorce & Custody Proceedings Involving Military Service Members sooner:

The rules regarding divorce or custody proceedings involving military personnel are different than those affecting civilians. The Soldiers' and Sailors' Civil Relief Act is just one way that military personnel can benefit from these different rules. The most important aspect of the Act is the availability to stay any civil proceeding, whether it be child custody or visitation, divorce, or child support proceeding confronting the service member or their dependents.

The Act, signed into law on Dec. 19, 2003 by President Bush expanded service member's protections and rights to include not only temporary suspension of judicial proceedings but also temporary suspension of administrative proceedings and transactions as well. The Act provides these protections to members on active duty in all branches of the armed services as well as members of the National Guard called to active duty for over 30 days.

Reminder About Filing Confidential Information With an Indiana Court,

Rarely do I note a criminal case but COA reiterates confidential-information filing from the Indiana Lawyer Daily caught my eye. Remember that during a family law case we may materials containing Social Security numbers that require special paper (green). That makes this case important for family law matters.

"The Indiana Court of Appeals emphasized in an opinion today the proper procedure for filing documents with confidential information, instigated by the fact the appellant's original appendix included a pre-sentence report on white paper and included a Social Security number."

In Joel C. Vaughen v. State of Indiana, No. 79A02-0811-CR-1032, Judge L. Mark Bailey reiterated in a lengthy footnote how information should be filed, what should be excluded, and on what color paper it should be submitted. Joel C. Vaughen's original appendix had a pre-sentence report on white paper, which should be excluded from public access filings pursuant to Ind. Administrative Rule 9(G)(1)(b)(viii). Documents excluded from public access are supposed to be included on light green paper or have a light green coversheet marked "Not for Public Access" or "Confidential."

Thursday, July 16, 2009

New Online Resource: Blended Family Reader

I can thank Twitter for finding Blended Family Advice. Too many of us are living in a blended family - stepkids and all that - and not much to help us understand what we are dealing with. (How often do we see blended families on television? Divorced families but I am having a time thinking of a blended family since "The Brady Bunch" but that might say more about how much time I spend with the television). So, not a law site but one that definitely touches on

Give a look at Blended Family about managing family stress which is too long for quoting.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Got Real Estate? Thinking of Getting Divorced?

Then get yourself to Updates in Michigan Family Law and read Divorce and distribution of real estate interests. Ms. Hannah has a post that just cannot be summarized but as being as detailed as possible about the problems facing clients with real estate and the lawyers representing them.

Yes, we have the same problems around here and some since the departure of GM from Madison and Delaware Counties. Problems here have been so bad for such a long time that a trip to bankruptcy court must now be considered with most divorces.

22 years to Get Divorced?

Still cleaning up from my hiatus, so this has a bit of age to it. But I think Divorce settlement granted after 22 years is a just a bit too interesting not to showcase. I would say that this would not happen in Indiana without a bit of collusion between the parties and the trial court not paying attention.

Now for the story:

"A woman has won £220,000 in a ground-breaking divorce settlement — 22 years after separating from her husband.

They were married only four years before they split up but they never formally divorced."

***

The woman’s solicitor, Naim Qureshi, a partner with the law firm Healys, which is based in London and Brighton, explained: “The main reason that she did not divorce earlier is because their child was very young, and she did not want all the anguish of a messy divorce at that time. Now, their son is an independent adult.”

Mr Qureshi said that another factor was that the woman’s former husband, who works occasionally as a chef, had come into an inheritance.

“She had borne the brunt, with almost no maintenance, of bringing up their son single-handedly, and felt that she had a potential claim.”

Her lawyers argued that the woman had been financially disadvantaged because of her husband’s lack of emotional or financial support during the marriage and because of his minimal provision for the support of their child after they separated.

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Alabama Protective Orders Go Online

Thanks to Florida Divorce Blog for Alabama Petitions for Orders of Protection Go High Tech:

Now, victims of domestic violence can prepare their petitions for an injunction for protection against domestic violence on any internet-connected computer.

From there, the data in the petition is electronically transmitted via the internet to law enforcement.

When domestic violence victims arrive at the courthouse, they can simply print out their waiting petitions for orders of protection and sign them.

Then the information will be electronically transmitted to the domestic violence judge on duty."

I am not aware of Indiana doing anything like this - or even having plans to do so.

Why Not Bring Back Fault for Divorces?

Good Lord, this topic never dies. For some reason conservatives favor the idea. Since I do not, I gu9ess that makes me a liberal. My rant having run its course, let me say I think John Bolch over at Family Lore has nailed the problem quite well:

Today I read that Conservative think tank the Centre for Social Justice will recommend that there be a compulsory three-month "cooling off" period before divorce proceedings can be commenced, one of a number of proposals contained in a report Every Family Matters, to be published tomorrow.... The report will also call for the retention of a fault provision in divorce proceedings, something which I think the vast majority of those working in the family justice system disagree (indeed, the last Conservative Government attempted to bring in no-fault divorce). Fault is pointless: very rarely can a marriage breakdown be said to be entirely the fault of one party, it involves the court in the issue of 'revenge' and, above all, it reduces the chance of matters being resolved amicably between the parties.

What To Do About the Wife's Boyfriend?

From North Carolina lawyer Lee Rosen comes another podcast, Confronting Your Wife’s Boyfriend:

Is it a good idea to contact the person with whom your spouse is having an affair – even if you just want to know “why”? Lee Rosen and attorney Holly Gray take a listener questions about reaching out to your spouse’s paramour, and whether or not moving back in with your spouse due to an illness affects your date of separation.
If you listen to all of the podcast you will some serious differences between Indiana and North Carolina law.

Monday, July 13, 2009

Indiana Child Custody: Custody Bonds

For those subscribing to the e-mail subscription service, you may notice a trend here about bonds. (For those wanting to subscribe via e-mail, there is a link to the right which explains how to do this). My only explanation is that the General Assembly wrote the laws and I have no idea why they thought bonds were such a great idea.

Separate statutes exist for paternity and divorce cases. They have the same language and I am quoting only from the paternity statutes to save space.

31-14-13-6.5 Security, bond, or guarantee
The court may provide in:
(1) a custody order; or
(2) a modification of a custody order; for the security, bond, or other guarantee that is satisfactory to the court to secure enforcement of the custody order.
(For divorce cases, see IC 31-17-2-21.5).

As I mentioned in, these bonds suffer from the great weakness of needing a party with the finances to pay for a bond. IC 31-14-1.5-1 requires the bond to be a property bond or a surety bond from a commercial insurance company. (For divorce cases follow this link). Then come even more limitations come from the custody bond statutes own requirements.
IC 31-14-13-6.7
Security, bond, or guarantee; determinations
(a) The court shall consider requiring security, a bond, or another guarantee under section 6.5 of this chapter if the court makes a finding under subdivision (1), (2), (4), or (7) by clear and convincing evidence. If the court makes a finding under subdivision (1), (2), (4), or (7), the court shall also consider subdivisions (3), (5), (6), (8), and (9) in determining the amount of security, bond, or other guarantee. In making a determination under this section, the court shall consider the following:
(1) Whether a party has previously taken a child out of Indiana or another state in violation of a custody, parenting time, or visitation order.
(2) Whether a party has previously threatened to take a child out of Indiana or another state in violation of a custody, parenting time, or visitation order.
(3) Whether a party has strong ties to Indiana.
(4) Whether a party:
(A) is a citizen of another country;
(B) has strong emotional or cultural ties to the other country; and
(C) has indicated or threatened to take a child out of Indiana to the other country.
(5) Whether a party has friends or family living outside Indiana.
(6) Whether a party does not have a financial reason to stay in Indiana, such as whether the party is unemployed, able to work anywhere, or is financially independent.
(7) Whether a party has engaged in planning that would facilitate removal from Indiana, such as quitting a job, selling the party's primary residence, terminating a lease, closing an account, liquidating other assets, hiding or destroying documents, applying for a passport, applying for a birth certificate, or applying for school or medical records.
(8) Whether a party has a history of marital instability, a lack of parental cooperation, domestic violence, or child abuse.
(9) Whether a party has a criminal record. After considering evidence, the court shall issue a written determination of security, bond, or other written guarantee supported by findings of fact and conclusions of law.(b) If a motion for change of judge or change of venue is filed, the court may, before a determination of change of judge or change of venue, consider security, bond, or other guarantee under this chapter.
(For the divorce analog see IC 31-17-2-21.7).

Whether a bond will deter the type of behavior which seems the object of the statute may be open to question. I suggest that some of this depends on the size of the bond and the liquidity of the person posting the bond and their rationality.

Remember, if you want more information about retaining me for a case, please give me a call at 765-641-7906.

Unequal Division of Property - New York Style

I cannot say that the same thing would happen in Indiana but it sure seems likely to me - with the emphasis on sporadic. The following is from Law.com's Former Attorney's 'Sporadic' Economic Support Results in Small Share of Marital Property:

"A disbarred attorney who provided 'limited, sporadic, unreliable and inconsistent' support to the 'economic partnership' of a 17-year marriage should receive only 35 percent of the couple's property, a New York judge has ruled.

'The Court finds that during the marriage ... the Wife provided a substantial share of the financial and day-to-day support in maintaining the household ... includ[ing] working full-time, being the primary caregiver for their son and ... providing for the consistent and reliable income flow the family enjoyed,' Acting Supreme Court Justice Mark D. Cohen of Suffolk County wrote in Glassberg v. Glassberg, 24307/05."

Marc Glassberg, an English teacher who went to law school at night, married Dorene Glassberg, a special education teacher, in 1988, a second marriage for both. The parties have one child, born in 1989. Ms. Glassberg filed for divorce in October 2005.

At a trial in February, Mr. Glassberg, who was admitted in 1985, testified that he "never netted more than $30,000 annually in earnings as an attorney," except in one instance, where he may have cleared $100,000 in 1991 due to a large referral fee.

He also testified that he ran his practice out of his basement and his car after being unable to afford a storefront office.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

New Indiana Third-Party/De Facto Custodian Case

Having had a bit of drought of new family law cases from the Indiana Court of Appeals. One of the new ones is In the Matter of Custody of J.V.; D.V. v. J.L. . (PDF format)

The facts (page 2):

In May 2006, Mother, Eric L., and J.V., moved in with Grandmother‟s daughter, who lives three houses down from Grandmother. This arrangement lasted for approximately one year, and during that time, Grandmother cared for J.V. three to four days per week. Grandmother provided all basic necessities for J.V. while J.V. was in Grandmother‟s home, including diapers, food, and clothing. Grandmother also paid a babysitter if she had to work while J.V. was in her care and if J.V.‟s aunt was unable to care for her.

The trial court's decision (page 3):
On November 14, 2008, the trial court issued the following order:
1. That [Grandmother] meets the requirements of I.C. 31-9-2-35.5 and is named as Defacto Custodian of [J.V.].
2. The Referee now adopts the recommendations of the Guardian Ad Litem as follows:
A. Legal and physical custody of the child is awarded to the Defacto
Custodian, [Grandmother].
B. [Mother] shall have parenting time with the child pursuant to the
Parenting Time Guidelines with the following restrictions: No
overnight parenting time at present and no contact with [Eric L.] or
Brayton Tedder.
3. Both parties are ordered to refrain from smoking near the child.
The Court of Appeals begins its decision with a long quote from In re L.L. & J.L., 745 N.E.2d 222
(Ind. Ct. App. 2001), trans. denied, (long as in approximately a page long, page 3 - 4) as the basis for "a framework for trial courts to apply when considering a custody dispute between a natural parent and a third-party." (Page 3).

Here is how the Court of Appeals describes the role of de facto custodians in relation to third party cases (pages 5- 6):
Once a court determines a “de facto custodian” exists and that individual has been
made a party to a custody proceeding, in addition to the usual “best interests” of the child factors contained in Indiana Code sections 31-14-13-2 and 31-17-2-8, the court shall consider the following factors in determining the child‟s best interests:
(1) The wishes of the child‟s de facto custodian.
(2) The extent to which the child has been cared for, nurtured, and supported
by the de facto custodian.
(3) The intent of the child‟s parent in placing the child with the de facto
custodian.
(4) The circumstances under which the child was allowed to remain in the
custody of the de facto custodian, including whether the child was placed
with the de facto custodian to allow the parent seeking custody to:
(A) seek employment;
(B) work; or
(C) attend school.
Finally, “[t]he court shall award custody of the child to the child‟s de facto custodian if the court determines that it is in the best interests of the child.”
The Court of Appeals cites to, respectively, Ind. Code §§ 31-14-13-2.5(b) and 31-17-2-8.5(b)Ind. Code §§ 31-14-13-2.5(d) and 31-17-2-8.5(d) for the above statements. (Page 6). The Court of Appeals holds grandmother to be a de facto custodian.

Then comes the "gotcha" paragraph:

But while this evidence supports the trial court‟s determination that Grandmother
is J.V.‟s “de facto custodian,” the trial court was also required to consider whether
awarding custody of J.V. to Grandmother is in J.V.‟s best interests. In its order awarding custody of J.V. to Grandmother, the trial court failed to make this determination. Although there is evidence in the record suggesting that awarding custody of J.V. to Grandmother is in J.V.‟s best interests, we remand this case to the trial court with instructions to enter the findings required to support its custody determination. Such findings are particularly important in this case given the significant burden a third party must overcome to rebut the presumption that the natural parent should have custody of his or her child. See B.H., 770 N.E.2d at 287 (“A generalized finding that a placement other than with the natural parent is in a child‟s best interests, however, will not be adequate to support such determination, and detailed and specific findings are required.”)
The trial judge did not specify why grandmother was in the best interests of the child. Yes, there is evidence noted in the opinion that ought to show the natural parents are not in the child best interests. But third party case involve removing a child from its parents and because of many factors - including constitutional issues - require a more stringent set of findings than in a custody case between parents. Therefore, back to the trial for the trial judge to specify why placing child with grandmother is int he child's best interests.

Another way of looking at this issue: just because the parents are not in the child's best interests doe snot mean that the third party will be in the child's best interests.

Lawyer Envy - Connecticut Coolness - Cohabitation Agreements

Yes, I admit the subject line today approaches a bit silly but it does capture my thoughts over what Connecticut has done with its online law library. Would that Indiana had such a thing.

If you want to see what I mean, see how the Connecticut Judicial Branch Libraries deals with Cohabitation Agreements.

For comparison here is a link to Indiana's online law library.

Would that we could have something like this for Indiana and that brings to mind my earlier discussions here about wikis. For that discussion, see Talking About Wiki's.

Divorce and 401(k) Plans

MSN Money has a pretty good description of how a 401(k) gets treated in a divorce - How divorce hits your 401k. The article is concise, accurate (at least for Indiana) and clearly written. I want to emphasize these paragraphs:

Q: By what mechanism is a 401k divided in divorce?

A: It's split up through a qualified domestic-relations order, or QDRO. That's a decree, order or property settlement under state law relating to child support, alimony or marital property rights that assigns part or all of the participant's benefits to an alternate payee. Generally the alternate payee is the spouse, but it could be a child or another dependent.

Q: Can I avoid an early-withdrawal penalty if I cash out part of my share of a 401k that I receive during divorce proceedings?

A: Yes. When the 401k is divided, you, as the alternate payee, have a one-time opportunity to take out 401k money without paying the normal 10% income tax penalty for withdrawing before age 59½. However, it is likely that you would have to pay income tax on any distribution.
As with all property in an Indiana divorce, 401(k) plans are presumed to be divided 50-50. The article correctly states that a QDRO (pronounce it QuadRO) is necessary for a transfer to the other party. What the article does not make clear (and probably this point is too complex for an article as straightforward as this was) is that one can keep the 401(k) intact if the other spouse gets 50 percentage of the property without the 401(k).

Which can mean horse trading amongst the assets or a long hearing on who gets exactly what and what is each item's value.

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Indiana Parenting Time - Minimal or More

The following came through yesterday afternoon as a comment to post on an entirely different topic:

Question;
(disclaimer: By the way, in no way am I solicting/initiating legal assistance from you nor requesting/developing a client - attorney relationship by asking these questions. I am only asking for an abstract of law/experience in a figurative case.)

Father has secondary custody and joint legal. Father has had daughter Monday a few hours after work, Weds a few hours after work, and the Friday it's not his weekend for 3 hours and of course every other weekend for 3 1/2 years. He wasn't wise in that he didn't read the entirety of the Indiana Parenting Guideline where it stated that when the child reaches school age parenting time for the father would fall to the Indiana Parenting time minimal. Father thought the Indiana Parenting Time Guide was primarily discussing proper co-parenting and missed the part about the minimal parenting time. Father asked for mediation in June 2008 whereby the parties agreed to postpone the opposition until said child reached first grade. Specific verbiage says Father has the right to continue petitioning for modification at that time. Father's primary argument is that the child has grown accustom to current parenting schedule for almost 4 years emotionally and mentally. Father states that the child and himself have grown accustom to their interrelationship that was/has developed under the current plan. Mother contends that father and new wife argue sometimes in front of the child. Thats her primary defense. The current parenting plan has not been modified as of yet but is subjec to change in August. Father is petitioning for modification in custody due to circumstantial changes. In all the years you've practiced law have you ever seen anything like this case wise? If so, what are your thoughts.
No, I have seen nothing like this. But that is the wonder of family law - people keep doing their own thing.

The Indiana Supreme Court created The Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines for several purpose. First, Indiana needed to to systematize visitation throughout the State of Indiana - many counties had visitation guidelines that spanned from complex (Marion County) to the simplistic (Jay County comes to mind here). Second, the Guidelines were meant to be self-explanatory and for use by the parents without constantly returning to a court.

Having had them in operation for over half a decade, I am not so sure that the second purpose was so successful. Personally, I find the language regarding Christmas vacation poorly written. There are more troublesome and common problems:
  1. People not understanding the nature of the Guidelines. These are Guidelines and not rules or statutes. Comparing them with the Child Support Guidelines may make this point best. The Child Support Guidelines state they are guidelines for which deviations are possible. The Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines lay out the minimum rules for visitation/parenting time that a judge can order for the parents. ("The concept that these Guidelines represent the minimum time a non-custodial parent should spend with a child should not be interpreted as a limitation of time imposed by the court. They are not meant to foreclose the parents from agreeing to, or the court from granting, such additional or reduced parenting time as may be reasonable in any given case. ")
  2. People are not reading the Parenting Time Guidelines. Since you are reading this, do you have a copy of the IPTG on your computer or a bookmark to the page for the IPTG? You should have both. Hint: there is a link on right hand menu to the IPTG. For those without Internet access, it may be a bit more of a problem getting a copy. I know you could get a copy at the Court Administrator's office in the Madison County Government Center. For those outside of Madison County, check with your local courts if they have hard copies. What would be the best practice would be to provide a copy at every provisional hearing in a divorce and every paternity hearing but that is not done.
  3. People are not reading the Parenting Time Guidelines properly. By this I include the obscurely written bits mentioned above but also an improper method of reading. Somewhat like reading just one article on this blog and not reading the whole of what has been written on a subject. The IPTG must be read as a whole instead of a collection of parts. Think of trying to make sense of car by only looking at the tires and exhaust pipe.
  4. For cases where one or both parties are too quarrelsome for their own good, the Guidelines solve nothing. I will go so far as to say that in some cases they add fuel to the fire. Mediation is supposed to be the next step if the parties cannot solve matters between themselves ("1. Disagreements Generally. When a disagreement occurs regarding parenting time and the requirements of these Guidelines, both parents shall make every effort to discuss options, including mediation, in an attempt to resolve the dispute before going to court."). Which is never done here in Madison County - who can afford to pay both a mediator and a lawyer? Better to just get the matter back in front of a judge for adjusting the attitude of the parent creating the problem.
While writing the above-paragraphs, I realized that the Guidelines make no reference to the Indiana statutes on parenting time. Which is a bit odd come to think of it.

Thinking of the statutes lead me to count the references to bests interests of the child in the IPTG. I count two uses of that phrase. They appear more clearly in the statutes.
IC 31-17-4-2
Modification or denial; restriction of parenting time rights
Sec. 2. The court may modify an order granting or denying parenting time rights whenever modification would serve the best interests of the child. However, the court shall not restrict a parent's parenting time rights unless the court finds that the parenting time might endanger the child's physical health or significantly impair the child's emotional development.

One thing must be understood about family law: the best interests of the child are the paramount concern of the law. If anyone reading this read my other parenting time articles or just generally my articles will know that "best interests of the child" crops up too often to count.

The IPTG attempts nothing more than to provide a guide for parents to use. I think they assumed that parents would create a parenting plan that was in their child's best interests. Failing to work in their child's best interests, a judge must make a decision of what is in the child's best interests.

For other issues and articles on Indiana's Parenting Time Guidelines, take a look through my archive of parenting time articles and visitation articles.

News: UK Court Allows Prenuptial Agreement

JURIST - Paper Chase: UK court recognizes pre-nuptial agreement in landmark ruling
[JURIST] A British appellate court on Thursday recognized [judgment, PDF] a pre-nuptial agreement for the first time in the UK, where they have been generally disregarded by courts hearing divorce proceedings. The UK Court of Appeal of England and Wales [official website] overturned a lower court ruling that awarded £5.8 million to the ex-husband of German heiress Katrin Radmacher despite a pre-nuptial agreement intended to shield her assets. Noting that the UK's treatment of pre-nuptial contracts sets it apart from both other European Union [official website] countries and the "wider common law world," Lord Justice Thorpe said:

In so far as the rule that such contracts are void survives, it seems to me to be increasingly unrealistic. It reflects the laws and morals of earlier generations. It does not sufficiently recognise the rights of autonomous adults to govern their future financial relationship by agreement in an age when marriage is not generally regarded as a sacrament and divorce is a statistical commonplace.

Thorpe directed judges in the future to "give due weight to the marital property regime into which the parties freely entered." The judgment awards Nicolas Granatino £1 million in compensation, £700,000 for payment of his debts, and a £2.5 million in trust for a familial residence until their youngest daughter turns 22. He is expected to appeal the ruling to the House of Lords [official website].


Indiana Paternity: Alternate Means of Paying Child Support

I pass these along just to make a point: we have tools that never get used. I have never seen either of these statutes put to use. Why not? Consider the economic level of the majority of paternity cases. Realize that these statutes require some level of prosperity:

IC 31-14-11-6
Setting aside parent's property
Sec. 6. The court may set aside any portion of either parent's property that may be necessary and proper for the support of the child

IC 31-14-11-7
Security, bond, or guarantee of obligation
Sec. 7. The court may provide in:
(1) a support order; or
(2) modification of a support order;
for the security, bond, or other guarantee that is satisfactory to the court to secure the obligation to make support payments.
It may also be a sign of legislative laziness. The statute appears to be a survivor from prior paternity statutes. Consider this description from State ex rel. Kahn v. Woodward,123 Ind. 30, 23 N.E. 968, 969 (1890) of an older regime:

This was a prosecution for bastardy, and the defendant found to be the father of the child, and the court ordered the payment of the sum of $600 to the relatrix for the maintenance of the child, and, on the failure of the defendant to pay or replevy the judgment, he was committed to the jail of Wells county.
The General Assembly changed the statute by the time of Tarver v. Dix :

Furthermore, the court's imposition of a one (1) year suspended sentence and probation if Tarver failed to give bond was beyond its statutory authority. While IC 31-6-6.1-14 permits the court to require appropriate security, bond, or other guarantee to insure performance of the support obligation, it does not specifically set out authority to commit the father to jail or place him on probation upon his failure to furnish such bond as did the former statute. Where a previous statute on a subject contains certain language, and a later statute on the same subject deletes the language, a presumption exists that the legislature was cognizant of its presence, and meaning, and intended by the deletion to change the law. Merimee v. Brumfield, (1979) Ind.App., 397 N.E.2d 315. In view of the deletion of this language in the new statute and the above rule of construction, we find no statutory authority vested in the court to impose a one year sentence to enforce the order to furnish bond. The proper procedure to enforce this order should be in the form of contempt proceedings.
So why not forgo the bond and just go for contempt? Tarver failed to provide a bond. If the payor lacks the finances to provide a bond, then it makes sense to forgo a bond. For what will we have then? A contempt proceeding where the issue is contempt for failing to provide a bond and failure to pay child support.

I think these tools are for very specific factual situations but in those cases they may have some good uses.

Remember, if you want more information about retaining me for a case, please give me a call at 765-641-7906.

What is it Like For a Family Lawyer?

John Bolch gives us one perspective with his The Life of a Family Lawyer. Yes, closing files can be an emotional experience. Much more than paper in there.

Friday, July 10, 2009

Got a Business and Divorcing? Think About It.

Not that I ever expected to link to a Lawn & Landscape article but that site published Split Decisions and it is well worth reading:

"Divorce is never Plan A for couples, and discussions of splitting assets 50/50 can put a high premium on the marital institution.

'You start thinking about losing your business, and losing everything – your credibility, your lifestyle, your home, everything,' says Lou Wierichs, president, Pro-X Systems, Appleton, Wis. Wierichs was married 24 years before getting a divorce in 2004. 'It’s scary,' he says simply.

This comes from an industry leader who admits his profits dipped $80,000 the year he spent working through his divorce. 'I had the worst year in business in 15 years,' Wierichs says. The divorce arbitration lasted nine hours and his ex-wife’s attorney scoured 10 years of credit card reports to support a far-fetched argument that Wierichs was making 'beaucoup bucks.'"
A bit longish, but worth the time spent reading but the bottom line for us today is this: business people ought to be consulting a lawyer before filing for divorce. (Of course, I think everyone ought to seek legal counsel before filing for divorce). The article explains better by example of why.

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Massachusetts Challenges DOMA and a Bit on Gay Marriage

Give the Massachusetts Attorney General a big hand for having the nerve to take on the Defense of Marriag eAct. This from her press release, Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakley Files Constitutional Challenge to Federal Defense of Marriage Act:

���Today, the Commonwealth of Massachusetts takes an important step toward ensuring equality and fairness for its citizens and maintaining our authority as a sovereign state,��� said Attorney General Coakley. ���DOMA affects residents of Massachusetts in very real and very negative ways by depriving access to important economic safety nets and other protections that couples count on when they marry and that help them to take care of one another and their families. DOMA also directly and fundamentally interferes with Massachusetts���s right as a state sovereign to determine the marital status of its residents.���

The Commonwealth���s complaint alleges that Section 3 of DOMA unlawfully creates separate and unequal categories of married individuals in Massachusetts, due to the fact that only different-sex married couples are considered married under federal law. Among other things, DOMA prohibits married individuals in same-sex relationships from taking advantage of the ability to file a joint federal tax return, Social Security survivor benefits, guaranteed leave from work to care for sick spouses, flexible spending accounts for medical expenses of spouses, and gift tax and estate tax exemptions for spouses. These rights and protections affect all facets of life from the workplace to healthcare to retirement, and every married person is affected significantly by these laws.

The Attorney General���s Office further contends that Section 3 of DOMA unlawfully requires Massachusetts to disregard valid marriages in its implementation of federally funded programs. The complaint focuses specifically on two programs, MassHealth and veterans��� cemeteries.

���It is unconstitutional for the federal government to discriminate, as it does because of DOMA���s restrictive definition of marriage. It is also unconstitutional for the federal government to decide who is married and to create a system of first- and second-class marriages. The federal government cannot require states, such as Massachusetts, to further the discrimination through federal programs, either. The time has come for this injustice to end.���

The complaint specifically highlights two programs in Massachusetts that are impacted by DOMA. The two programs are MassHealth, the Commonwealth���s Medicaid program which offers healthcare coverage to low- and moderate-income residents of Massachusetts, and the burial of Massachusetts veterans and their spouses at cemeteries owned and operated by the Massachusetts Department of Veterans��� Services (DVS).
Here is also another press release, although I must ask if people really think this is news? Study shows gay couples want legal rights, regardless of marriage,
New research from North Carolina State University shows that gay and lesbian couples are forming long-term, committed relationships, even in the absence of the right to marry. However, couples surveyed for the study overwhelmingly said they would get married if they could in order to secure legal rights – such as retirement and healthcare benefits.

"Our study indicates that marriage is both more and less important to gay and lesbian couples in long-term relationships than was perhaps previously understood – more important in terms of the legal rights it conveys, but less important as a symbol of commitment," says study co-author Dr. Sinikka Elliott, an assistant professor of sociology and anthropology at NC State. "This research underscores the need for legal protections and rights for all couples."

The study found that, because these gay and lesbian couples could not marry in their state, there was no defining moment demarcating when they became "committed" in their own eyes or in the eyes of others. Instead, their commitment revealed itself over time, with different people having different ideas as to when a relationship became "committed." Elliott explains that this shows there are multiple ways that couples can form lasting, committed relationships outside the institution of marriage.

Facebook Problems and Family Law

Arizona Family Law Blog and South Carolina Family Law Blog have both picked up on the problems of Facebook. I saw it but took my hiatus without publishing, so about time I shared it.The articles are Facebook and Divorces and Facebook No-No's for Divorcing Couples, respectively. I am cribbing the following from South Carolina Family Law Blog:

  1. Showing Off :: Pictures or discussions of new purchases or vacations are fun, but they might color the court's view of your finances and affect your settlement.
  2. Letting It All Hang Out :: If you're in a custody battle, your ex's lawyers would love to present you as the nonnurturing type. Delete all the crazy party photos.
  3. Getting Tagged :: It's not just your page you have to worry about. Make sure your friends' photos of you can't be used against you either.
  4. Venting :: Don't talk smack about the lawyers, the judge and especially your spouse — on your page or anybody else's. (You think your kids never use a computer?)
  5. Cutting Off Everyone at Once :: Don't "defriend" in-laws or your ex's friends right away. People need time to adjust. Unless it's really high-conflict. Then go for it.
I want to say that this ought to apply to more than Facebook. For some reason (our local reticence to keep up with trends), MySpace turns up in my cases more than Facebook. Be wary of what you do you online. It might be useful reading a post I wrote on my business law blog, Tweeting Employees?, for some other points. Last, understand the difference between a private and public page (not that that will make much difference when there is discovery but it helps).

Oh, I would add two other items not to do:
  1. Do not leave comments on other people's pages you do not want to read in court.
  2. Do not set up accounts for underage children.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Ireland Passes Law for Couples Living Together, When Will Indiana?

I make this point fairly often that Indiana has no statute protecting cohabitating adults. I make this point almost as often that such a law would apply to both same-sex and opposite sex couples. I ran across Ireland Gives Gay Couples Civil Partnerships thanks to Google Alerts and it makes clear this same point.

A new civil partnership bill in Ireland will give gay and lesbian couples some of the rights of marriage, Reuters reported.

The new law grants new legal rights to unmarried couples – gay or straight – in a long-term relationship.

***

“This bill provides legal protection for cohabiting couples and is an important step, particularly for same-sex couples, whose relationships have not previously been given legal recognition by the state,” Justice Minister Dermot Ahern said in a statement.

The Irish Times provides a bit more detail in its Partnership Bill to be welcomed:

The Civil Partnership Bill, which was published by Minister for Justice Dermot Ahern last week, caters for two groups of people whose relationships previously had no legal recognition – cohabiting couples and same-sex couples. The former are more numerous, and many people in such relationships may not even realise how vulnerable they are, especially if they are financially dependent. As the law currently stands, if the relationship ends, they have no right to remain in their home, no right to maintenance and will face punitive taxation if they inherit.

The new Bill addresses some of these issues, by ensuring that a dependent partner has certain protections after three years, two if there are children. It provides for succession and property rights, the protection of the joint home, access to law governing the dissolution of the relationship – which is modelled on divorce legislation – and protection under domestic violence legislation. This is a presumptive scheme, in that the rights kick in automatically unless people opt out. They can do so, or make other financial arrangements, in an agreement that will be legally enforceable.

***

For same-sex couples, who do not have the option of marriage enjoyed by heterosexual couples, there is much more comprehensive provision. The Bill, when enacted, will convey “civil status” on registered partnerships, giving explicit recognition to the relationship. This is of huge symbolic importance, and carries with it a range of rights and obligations, similar, though not identical to, those enjoyed by married couples.

What I find a bit more strange is this:

However, the Bill is virtually silent on the issue of the children who live with same-sex couples. The circumstances in which children come to be living in such households vary, and can include being the natural child of one or other from a previous relationship, being adopted by one partner, or the result of a decision by the couple to have a child through assisted human reproduction.

If Indiana were ever to pass legislation like this, I would expect our existing paternity statutes to apply in this situation.

The Fun (NOT) Of Interstate Custody

I am working on UCCJA (Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act) now but it is nowhere near as ugly as the case (I just have a judge who entered an Order giving limited relief to my opponent and ordered briefing on the jurisdictional issues) noted by The Florida Divorce Law Blog:

Wife also obtains an injunction for protection against domestic violence, or order of protection, against Husband - in Rhode Island.

Not buying it, the North Carolina Court orders Wife to return with the children to live in North Carolina.

Unhappy with the North Carolina ruling, Wife tries to do an end run around the North Carolina courts and seeks emergency jurisdiction in Rhode Island.

Which Rhode Island’s family courts exercise … repeatedly.

Having apparently exhausted his remedies in North Carolina, Husband appeals in Rhode Island.

And Husband wins …

A mere seven years later.

The reasons Husband wins are because:

  1. North Carolina validly exercised jurisdiction in the first place and
  2. Emergency jurisdiction is inherently temporary in nature

    English Cohabitiation Bills Fails

    I guess this is International Day for this blog. Head of Legal is an English blog. Its Baroness Deech and the Cohabitation Bill details a bit too much for my American comprehension about the politics of the is particular Bill. Why I want to mention the post here is for the discussion in the comments about the general merits of a cohabitation bill. I expect a similar debate here between those suggest such a bill is too much state intervention and the inequity of the law towards people's property who are unmarried. If such a debate comes here, I will come down on the side of the second of debate.


    (Note to any American readers, especially lawyers, I suggest subscribing to John Bolch's Family Lore and reading CharonPC).

    Tuesday, July 7, 2009

    Some Comforting Marital Stats From The New York Times

    Marriage Stands Up for Itself:

    "Yet if recent research is any guide, the marriage itself has a chance to outlast all of it, the public leer and the private sting, by many years."

    ***

    Despite strong social riptides working against it — the liberalization of divorce laws, the vanishing stigma of divorce, the continual online temptations of social sites like MySpace or Facebook — the marriage bond is far stronger in 21st-century America than many may assume. Infidelity is one of the most common reasons cited by people who divorce. But surveys find the majority of people who discover a cheating spouse remain married to that person for years afterward. Many millions more shrug off, or work through, strong suspicions or evidence of infidelity. And recent trends in marriage suggest that the institution itself has become more resilient in recent years, not less so.

    ***

    Temptation stalks even close marriages, as researchers have had no trouble documenting it. In one survey, psychologists at the University of Vermont asked 349 men and women in committed relationships about sexual fantasies. Fully 98 percent of the men and 80 percent of the women reported having imagined a sexual encounter with someone other than their partner at least once in the previous two months. The longer couples were together, the more likely both partners were to report such fantasies.

    In another study, psychologists at the University of Washington and the University of North Carolina reported that married men and women who called their relationship with their spouse “pretty happy” were twice as likely to cheat as those who said their relationship was “very happy.” But perhaps the strongest risk factor for infidelity, researchers have found, exists not inside the marriage but outside: opportunity.

    ***

    The story is different for more-recently married couples. A comparison of 10-year divorce rates among college-educated men married in the 1970s, 1980s and 1990s shows that divorce is becoming less common, said Dr. Stevenson, the Wharton researcher. Among men who married in the 1970s, for example, about 23 percent had divorced by the 10th year of marriage. Among similar men married in the 1980s, about 20 percent had divorced by the 10th year. Men married in the 1990s are doing even better — with a 10-year divorce rate of 16 percent.


    Family Law Prof Blog also noted this article here.

    Moving? Make Sure Your Support Clerk Knows

    The Madison County Clerk has a form for changing your address. Since it was not online, I uploaded the form as a PDF form. You can find that here. I know of no reason why this cannot be modified for other counties.

    Monday, July 6, 2009

    Behaving Well in A Family Law Case

    "Consciously or unconsciously, one or both parents in divorce sometimes draw their children into the following roles:

    1. Spy on the Other Parent
    2. Side-Taker against the Other Parent
    3. Messengers to the Other Parent
    4. Partner or Confidante
    5. Household Finances Stretcher
    6. Teenager Peer
    7. Spoiled as Compensation
    8. Pawns in Visitation and Custody Battles
    9. Captive Audience to Disparagement of Other Parent
    10. Tool Wielded to Manipulate or Control the Other Parent

    Drawing children in to the divorce is damaging to them both psychologically and emotionally."
    And this is not in the child's best interests. Do it enough and you may find yourself back in court.

    I also suggest reading Child-Custody – Putting Your Children First and Back seat drivers: Moms who control dads’ time with the kids.

    Indiana Child Support Payment Options

    The powers that be indicate that the only way to pay child support nowadays is through ISETS. A while back I am talking to the support clerk in the Madison County Clerk's office and noticed Options in Making Child Support Payments. From what the clerk told them our support clerk is taking child support payments just as in the old days. You can see a copy of this document here. (Of course, no one has thought to put in on the County web page).

    I know of no reason the information here does not apply to other counties but check with your local clerk's office to make sure.

    Muncie - Tomorrow - Free Legal Consult

    So reports The Muncie Star-Press this morning:

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    Sunday, July 5, 2009

    Madison County Children in The Middle Seminar

    Since the schedule cannot be found online through the Madison County website, I scanned the year's schedule and uploaded it to Scribbed. You can find a PDF copy here. The $25.00 on the first page is a note as to the cost of the program.

    Divorce and what to do with an upside down mortgage?

    I ran across this issue on a lawyer listserv and one writer made three suggestions that I think are good ones:
    ...We are taking three approaches: 1) working with financial planner to help get all finances in order and maximize income, 2) refinancing (hopefully, they aren't as upside down as your situation but I am working with a good mortgage broker) to save money
    monthly, and 3) working with opposing party to make sure all sides are happy.
    I will make a fourth suggestion, that both parties consult a bankruptcy attorney. Unpleasant and drastic, but there is information to be gotten from a consultation that may help inform the other three approaches.

    Saturday, July 4, 2009

    Happy Fourth of July

    What are you doing here?

    It is a holiday. Enjoy yourself. More posts tomorrow but today this is it.

    Friday, July 3, 2009

    Legal Separation, Again

    What to do when the client will have a large child support order, a maintenance order, and an upside down mortgage, but whose marriage is on the ropes? Add that spouse wants to return to school.

    It helps that the client and spouse can live together.

    Legal separation gives us the opportunity to avoid both the support and maintenance orders - client remains in the home avoids this.

    By remaining in the home, client saves the cost of a new residence.

    By remaining the home, the spouse has support to go back to school.

    At the end of the year and if the situation has not improved between them, the client can file for dissolution of marriage.

    All this could be tied together in a separation/post-nuptial agreement.

    While from Scotland's Sunday Herald, The cost of living like this points out the flexibility available to married couples. I am only suggesting another.

    Divorce, Strategy and Sun Tzu

    Every case needs a strategy. This includes divorce case. Strategy requires knowing the client's goals and the law.

    But who is Sun Tzu? An ancient Chinese general who wrote The Art of War. A book I suggest anyone and everyone to read. For more about Sun Tzu, take a look at this Wikipedia article.

    The South Carolina Family Law Blog's Sun Tzu and the Art of Divorce puts all this into perspective:

    Successful Family Court litigation is a result of planning, stategy, and effort on the part of both the attorney and his client. Like one of Sun Tzu's generals, the better attorneys know how and when to use misdirection and baiting to prosecute their clients' case. For instance, on cross-examination or in a deposition, it is not uncommon to give the opposing party just enough rope to allow that party to hang himself.

    Both the attorney and his client should always keep the original end goal at the forefront as they proceed through the stages of litigation. No one, especially a Family Court litigant, ever benefits from fighting just for the sake of fighting ("prolonged warfare"). When children are involved, such conduct can result in emotional damage, or in extreme cases, hatred or resentment toward one or both parents.

    Too many times, the parties (and sometimes even their attorneys) will get so caught up in trying to "win" the case that they lose sight of what is really important, the original purpose for going to Court (Sun Tzu's "great object of victory"). Having an experienced attorney can be invaluable, as we are able to use our perspective, objectivity, and experience to know the best way to wage the campaign. An experienced attorney knows all too well and will certainly advise his client that no one ever "wins" in Family Court litigation.


    Which also brings to mind a conversation last week with a person who became a client. He wanted to know my win-loss ratio. A question I always dread because of lawyers think of this differently than do non-lawyers. Do I get the legally logical result? More often than not. Do we get the solution that the client wants? I think that is a far more complex question but comes down to whether the client wants what they say they want and then whether they get what they really want.

    For me, the essential point of Sun Tzu is that one cannot fight all fights at the same time. That is a sign of no clear goal and strategy is how to reach that goal. Clients need to listen to what the law allows (what we lawyers call remedies), understand the facts of the case, and think hard of what they want. Clients then need to think hard on their real goals.

    Thursday, July 2, 2009

    Want to Set Aside a Paternity Affidavit in Grant County, Indiana?

    Then get a DNA test before going to court. That is right, get a DNA test so that the paternity court can order a DNA test.

    Such is my conclusion from a recent case I had in Marion. Since the client chose not to appeal the case, I think I am free to write what I think about the court's decision. Does not change anything but maybe it will educate the public.

    I relied on In re the Paternity of M.M., 889 N.E. 2d 846 (Ind. App. 2008). I wrote about this case here. As I read the case, the remedy was for the court to order DNA tests and not to set aside the paternity affidavit until there was a DNA test.

    The Commissioner of Grant Superior Court Two for the Title IV-D court read the case a bit differently. You can read his decision here (PDF format).

    In my opinion he seized hold of the fact that in M.M, that there were DNA tests conducted before filing of the petition to set aside to ignore that M.M. did not require a failure of DNA tests but facts learned outside of court proceedings.

    Of my proposed findings, you can read a revised copy here (PDF format).and my Motion to Correct Errors here (PDF format).and the court's ruling on that Motion to Correct Errors here (PDF format)..

    If anyone would care to discuss this decision and my arguments, the comments section is right below. I think there are some logic problems with the court's decision. I am also a bit less than objective about this case, and would be glad to hear of any points I missed.

    Top five problems leading to divorce

    Dick Price caught a post from Alabama Family Law Blog, and Marriage Advice from a Divorce Lawyer? s well worth reposting again:

    "Here, in my experience, are the top five problems that contribute to divorce:

    "1. Money – Whether it is differences in values about money, issues about control of the money or financial pressures that put a strain on the relationship, money issues often lead to divorce. Best to get on the same page early, be fair about how the money is controlled, and attempt to understand and accommodate your spouse’s views on money.

    "2. Communication – I will often have a client of mine that is going through divorce tell me that they love their spouse, they are just no longer in love with them. I’m not sure exactly what that means. But, typically it is a sign that the couple quit having meaningful communication with one another some time ago. Communicate deeply and often with your spouse.

    "3. Lack of Commitment – I don’t intend to get on my soapbox about this issue, but it is hard to dispute that our nation no longer has the same view of marriage we once did. Sometimes a divorce is the only option, but quite frequently (particularly with younger couples, it seems) I will see one or the other spouse who really cannot express a good reason why they want the divorce. One divorce lawyer I know comments on how the threshold on what it takes to get someone to pull the trigger on divorce has decreased dramatically in the past twenty years. Perhaps it has something about how self absorbed and tied to instant gratification we have become. It will keep divorce lawyers in business, but it is sad for us as a nation.

    "4. Physical Addictions – Thankfully they occur in the minority of cases that I see. But, when they do, they are quite tragic. Whether it is alcohol, illegal drugs or prescription drugs, the effects of addiction can obviously be devastating. The best advice is to intervene early and get professional help.

    "5. Sex – Of course, sexual problems frequently lead to divorce as well. But, their effect is probably overestimated. Generally speaking infidelity is a sign of other problems in the marriage, not the original problem. Increasingly, however, I am seeing the internet playing a role in these cases. Whether it is pornographic websites or the ability to meet others anonymously and easily online, the internet provides new snares for a relationship that did not previously exist.

    "Despite the fact that I help my clients navigate their way through divorce, I do not encourage divorce. Hopefully this advice will help some


    News: 13 counties receive Family Court grants

    From The Indiana Lawyer Daily came 13 counties receive Family Court grants (yes, another hiatus created delay):

    "Counties receiving grants for 2009 are Tippecanoe, $40,000; Clark, $30,000; Marion, $20,000; Vanderburgh, $15,000; Porter and Lake, $10,000 each; Johnson, $7,000; Henry, $5,000; and Owen, $2,000. Bartholomew, Brown, Jackson, and Lawrence counties are sharing a $20,000 grant."

    Well, Madison and Delaware Counties do not appear. The only county close is Henry.

    Wednesday, July 1, 2009

    The Michael Jackson Case and Third Party Custody

    Let me say I know nothing about California custody law. I looked at my usual suspects for California law and see nothing about the Jackson case.

    And the facts I do have are from The New York Times' Jackson’s Children Go to His Mother (which really gave short shrift to the kids):

    LOS ANGELES — Michael Jackson’s mother was granted temporary guardianship of his three children by a Los Angeles judge on Monday, and a hearing on permanent custody was scheduled for next week.

    ***

    The singer’s older children, 12-year-old Michael Joseph Jackson Jr., also known as Prince Michael, and Paris Michael Katherine Jackson, 11, are the biological children of Debbie Rowe, to whom he was briefly married. A younger son, Prince Michael Jackson II, 7, called Blanket, was carried to term by a surrogate who has never been identified.

    “Minor children are currently residing with their paternal grandmother,” documents filed by lawyers for Katherine Jackson say. “They have a long-established relationship with paternal grandmother and are comfortable in her care.”

    The documents list Ms. Rowe’s address as “unknown,” and the youngest child’s mother as “none.”

    Judge Mitchell L. Beckloff of Los Angeles County Superior Court, who granted the temporary custody, set a hearing for next Monday to make further determinations about the children’s guardianship.
    Take all that together makes the emergency order sensible - from an Indiana perspective, at least.

    Indiana law prefers custody of children be with their parents. Huss v. Huss, 888 N.E.2d 1238, 1245 (Ind. 2008) and federal constitutional law requires a presumption favoring natural parents. See Troxel v. Granville, 530 U.S. 57, 65-66 (2000). However, that presumption can be overcome by third parties. Third parties being grandparents, relatives or strangers.

    Simplifying as much as possible, the third party must prove the parent is unfit or have acquiesced in or voluntarily relinquished custody to the third party.

    From the report above, what would come next in Indiana will be the grandmother having to prove that the mothers ought not have custody.

    Not enough facts to know if the mother of the older children has acted in such a way to make rebuttal of the parental presumption easier for the grandmother.

    I think the youngest child creates the more interesting case, but, again, not enough facts to know why she is now unknown.

    Do read my Indiana Emergency Custody/Third Party Custody - IC 31-17-2-25 for how this might play out in Indiana especially for the mother of the younger child.

    Educate your family about your divorce

    Alaska Divorce Blog provides some very interesting article. I read Divorce: Tips For Your Parents and Relatives and kicked myself for not having thought of this subject. I would only add that these tips apply to custody and child support and paternity and visitation cases. Which means they apply to all my family law cases. Here is the advise from Alaska:

    There are a couple of things that you can do to attempt to avoid having your family create additional conflict between you and your spouse or to jeopardize your position in a contested custody case.

    • It is important for the children to be able to have good relationships with both sides of the family. Therefore, avoid the temptation of calling your spouse’s parents or relatives to discuss the details of the divorce or to talk your feelings about your spouse. If you have a need to “vent” which is only natural, find a good counselor who can help you work through your feelings about the other spouse.

    • At the point you decide to tell your parents or other relatives that a divorce is on the horizon, encourage them to avoid discussing the details of the divorce with your spouse’s parents or relatives. In particular, explain to your family that any e-mails or letters they send to your spouse’s parents or relatives could end up in the court file, particularly if you think there is going to be a disagreement over physical or legal custody of the children.

    You can educate your family about the positive effect they can have upon your children during this difficult transitional period. Hopefully, you can make them understand that you are looking at the long-term benefits to the children, which result from having healthy relationships with both sides of the family. This of course assumes neither of the parents or relatives have domestic violence, physical, sexual or substance abuse. The presence of any of these factors would alter the landscape of the divorce case and could require a different approach. If you have any concerns about these issues you should discuss them with your divorce lawyer.


    Do You Have to Pay Child Indefinitely in Indiana?

    Short answer: no. I suggest you go along and listen Lee Rosen's Paying Child Support Indefinitely?, and be thankful for living in Indiana.

    Mr. Rosen has a great web presence, a large family law practice and he has regular podcasts on North Carolina family law. Listening to his podcast made think of some important differences between here and there:

    1. There can be automatic change in child support here. There is an Indiana case )whose name escapes me while I write this) which expressly held that an automatic increase of child support without a hearing violated the payor's due process rights.
    2. What we can do in Indiana, and does not seem apparently possible in Indiana, is exchange income information year (or when there is a major change in a party's economic situation) and there can be an agreed change in child support (or a filing of a petition to modify support).
    3. I cannot get my mind around the idea that a contract can control child support. Indiana law sees child support as belonging to the children with the payee parent acting as a trustee for the children. No I see no way that a parent can contract away their children's child support.
    4. While a person may waive a constitutional right, but I doubt there was any intelligent waiver of any due process from what I understood the description of the North Carolina facts.
    5. North Carolina's modification procedure sounds horribly complicated compared to our procedure of just filing a petition to modify. On the other hand, I wonder if it is any quicker when one figures in our need for discovery.
    6. If any wonders why Indiana lawyers rely so heavily on irretrievable breakdown of the marriage as grounds for a divorce, just listen to the whole of the podcast for the discussion of using impotency as grounds for a divorce.
    Just some random thoughts but I think I am glad to be in Indiana and so should you.

    (I notice that Ohio is pretty much similar to Indiana - see The Ohio Law Blog's Child Support in Ohio – How can I have the amount adjusted if I can no longer pay the current amount? - but that Ohio has also an administrative agency. Am I detecting a North-South divide here?)

    What to do if refused visitation?

    Read John Bolch's What do you do when you turn up for contact and your ex refuses to allow you to see the children?. Imprint this on your brains:

    If you are not able to discuss matters reasonably with her, or if she still refuses to allow you contact, then walk away. The longer you stay there, the more likely there will be an 'incident', or she will allege that you are harassing her. Obviously, you will have to consider instructing a solicitor, or issuing a contact application.

    Keep a contemporaneous diary of your contact with the children and any problems that occur. This could be extremely useful in any future court proceedings. If there have been regular breaches of agreed arrangements, this would give you grounds for an application to the court.
    Read the whole of the article, please. Do not be put off by it being from an English family law blog. This shows that behaviors (and excuses) do not change from on jurisdiction to another. The advice given is good common sense.

    I think I detect a bit of difference between England and Indiana regarding visitation. I am thinking the contact order must be analogous to our Parenting Time Orders. We always have one in place where there are children from the time of the provisional hearing to the Final Hearing.

    What continues to surprise is how many people do not know how to enforce their visitation rights. Either prior counsel never told them (not as unlikely as it may sound) or the parent was not paying attention. The Family Lore article does not go to this point - it deals with what to do when you are standing in the doorway and the custodial parent says the child is not going. I am speaking now about to do after you leave the custodial parent's home.

    There are two choices for the non-custodial parent to make at this time:

    1. If the custodial parent has a lawyer, have your lawyer call the opposing counsel and get the opposing counsel to put pressure on their client.
    2. If the custodial parent has no counsel, your only choice to file an affidavit for contempt.
    I have articles on Parenting Time and on enforcing court orders, just follow the links below.

    Tuesday, June 30, 2009

    Applying a Prenup in a Probate Estate

    Thanks to Wills, Trusts & Estates Prof Blog for Implied requirement of good faith allows beneficiaries to recover

    The agreement:


    A prenuptial agreement provided that if the husband died first, wife would maintain a valid will giving not less than one-quarter of her entire estate to each of her husband’s three sons. The husband’s will left a substantial portion of his estate to his wife.
    What happened next is something lawyers fret over: wife put most of her estate out of the reach of her husband's children.

    The Kansas Court of Appeals ruled as followed:
    In a split decision, the Court of Appeals reversed the district court. Estate of Draper v. Bank of America, 38 Kan. App. 2d 183, 164 P.3d 827 (2007). The Court of Appeals concluded that the antenuptial agreement did not restrict Ethel with respect to gifting or inter vivos transfers of her property; further, no language in the agreement restricted Ethel from creating irrevocable trusts. Consequently, the panel determined that Ethel complied with the clear language of the antenuptial agreement and did not breach the contract. 38 Kan. App. 2d at 189.

    The Kansas Supreme Court reversed and found the prenuptial agreement did create a duty on the part of the wife for the benefit of the children.

    Reading the Kansas opinion leaves me with the impression that without the prenuptial agreement, there would have been little money for the husband's children.

    Georgia Family Law Blog: Top 10 Reasons a Premarital Agreement May be Invalid

    FindLaw has a list of 10 reasons which may cause a prenuptial agreement to fail. For more details, check out the original post, but this is a list of those reasons:
    # NO WRITTEN AGREEMENT.
    # NOT PROPERLY EXECUTED.
    # YOU WERE PRESSURED.
    # YOU DIDN'T READ IT.
    # NO TIME FOR CONSIDERATION.
    # INVALID PROVISIONS.
    # FALSE INFORMATION.
    # INCOMPLETE INFORMATION.
    # NO INDEPENDENT COUNSEL.
    # UNCONSCIONABILITY.


    News About Indiana's Protection Order Registry

    This came from JTAC Project Blog:

    "Decatur County became the 79th county to implement the Protection Order Registry (POR) on Monday, leaving only 13 counties yet to implement the system, which was recently deemed mandatory by the Indiana General Assembly and Governor Mitch Daniels.

    Sullivan County was the 78th county to deploy the POR just last week. The clerk and court staff completed their training on May 22, 2009, and entered their first order in the registry on June 3. Both protection orders and no-contact orders have already been processed in Sullivan County with the new system."

    Defining joint custody in Indiana

    The following comes from Arms v. Arms, a 2004 Court of Appeals opinion.

    I am hacking out the statements of law from discussions of the facts/evidence. I think this might make it easier reading for non-lawyers while it may raise the hackles of lawyers (I know I find breaking it down like this a bit strange). As I am working from a HTML version of the opinion, there are no page citations. :

    In making the determination of whether joint custody is appropriate, courts are guided by the principle that parents should not be permitted to maintain joint legal custody over their children if they cannot work and communicate together to raise the children. I.C. § 31-17-2-15(2) (West 1998); Carmichael v. Siegel, 754 N.E.2d 619 (Ind. Ct. App. 2001). Thus, in determining whether joint legal custody is appropriate, courts examine whether the parents have the ability to work together for the best interests of their children. Carmichael v. Siegel, 754 N.E.2d 619....

    ***

    .... In a joint custody arrangement, the parents share the “authority and responsibility for the major decisions concerning the child’s upbringing, including the child’s education, health care, and religious training.” Ind. Code Ann. § 31-1-11.5-21(f) (West 1998). Under such an arrangement, it is critically important that the parents demonstrate the ability to work together for a common purpose, i.e., the child’s best interests...
    I added the links to the statutes which are not in the original document. For non-lawyers, understand that there is here an interplay between statute, case law, and the facts.

    Bottom line requirement for joint custody: that the parties can work together for child's benefit.

    That fits nicely into a definition of joint custody: shared authority and responsibility for making decisions about the child's care. Notice that does not include sharing physical custody of the child. See IC 31-17-2-14

    In this case, the Court of Appeals uphold modifying a joint custody order to sole custody in the father. In the following the opinion discusses the facts of the case. I think they are clear enough not to need any commentary.
    Father produced substantial evidence that the acrimonious relationship between him and Mother rendered it impossible for the pair to work together toward a common goal. To review some of that evidence, Mother filed several allegations of abuse against Father. Subsequent investigations by the authorities failed to substantiate the allegations, and even caused authorities to question whether Mother was exerting a positive influence in E.A.’s life. There was evidence that Mother coached E.A., against his will, to say bad things about Father and Vicki and to call them derogatory names. Father also detailed several examples of Mother’s unwillingness or inability to abide by the terms of the then-existing custody and visitation orders with respect to meeting with Father or Vicki to drop off or pick up E.A. Also, we note that there was evidence that Mother instigated a physical altercation with Vicki at Father’s home. We need not detail the rest of the evidence in this regard. The foregoing is sufficient to demonstrate that the Mother and Father were incapable of working together well enough to make a joint custody arrangement plausible.

    This evidence was sufficient to support the trial court’s findings that Mother and Father were unable to effectively communicate with each other, and that they are unable to jointly make decisions concerning E.A. In turn, those findings support the judgment terminating joint legal custody as untenable. See Albright v. Bogue, 736 N.E.2d 782. The same evidence supports a conclusion that Father, and not Mother, should be given the sole legal custody of E.A.



    Paternity and Adoption: New Indiana Supreme Court Case

    News of this came in from The Indiana Lawyer Daily. I had not read the case being as it appeared to be only an adoption case. However, I see I missed an an important new case relating to paternity cases.

    High court rules on putative father adoption case

    In a 4-1 decision June 26, justices decided the Bartholomew County case of In Re Adoption of Unborn Child of B.W., W.G. v. D.B. and J.B. , No. 03S04-0810-CV-560, which is the first to come from the Indiana State Bar Association's pro bono appellate program. Four justices made up the majority, but the chief justice dissented while another justice concurred in result and wrote the debated statutes provide "multiple opportunities for confusion or even intentional obfuscation."

    The adoption case revolves around the minor child T.B., who was born out of wedlock in late 2006. Since the biological father, W.G., was incarcerated at the time, the trial court granted temporary custody to the adoptive parents. The jailed father received notice of the pending adoption and filed a motion to establish paternity in Circuit Court, rather than in Superior Court where the adoption case was pending. He later filed a more expansive motion entitled, "Petition to Establish Paternity and Contest Adoption of Unknown Minor Child," in that same Circuit paternity action. The adoptive parents claim that his failure to file it in the proper court nullified the motion; Bartholomew Superior Judge Chris Monroe determined that W.G. had failed to follow the statutory requirements to contest that adoption in Superior Court in a timely fashion, and his consent was irrevocably implied because of that.

    The father argued that Indiana Code Sections 31-19-4-5 and -9-12 are in conflict because they require the putative father to file a motion to contest the adoption or to initiate a paternity action within 30 days of being served with the petition for adoption and notice of named father. Also, that county's local court rules require all paternity cases be filed in Circuit Court.

    ***


    "In sum, we hold that under Indiana Code § 31-19-9-12(1), to be deemed to have implied his irrevocable consent to an adoption, a putative father must fail to file both a paternity action and a motion to contest the adoption," Justice Brent Dickson wrote. "The appellant-father here undisputedly timely filed his paternity action. It is therefore unnecessary to decide whether his timely attempt to contest the adoption, filed in the Circuit Court rather than in the Superior Court where the adoption was pending, satisfied the adoption implied consent statute. The paternity action sufficed to preclude a finding of implied irrevocable consent to the adoption."

    The majority reversed and remanded the Bartholomew Superior Court ruling, while Justice Ted Boehm concurred in result but has concerns about the statutes.

    "The statutes should not permit a filing in another court to suspend the prompt resolution of an adoption," he wrote. "Dueling jurisdictions, or even the need for transfer and consolidation, are formulas for delay. Nor should there be any doubt what a putative father must do to preserve his rights. I hope the General Assembly will consider requiring that a putative father wishing to contest an adoption or declare paternity must file in the court in which an adoption action is pending or otherwise assure consolidation of these two proceedings to reduce the opportunity for delay and confusion, while still preserving all rights of the putative father."

    Monday, June 29, 2009

    New Ohio Law Bog

    A shout out to Ohio Law Blog which has a large number of family law posts. I am finding it very interesting to see some of the similarities and differences between Indiana and Ohio. (I do like the layout and style, the way.)

    Why not a Standing Domestic Relations Procedural Order for Indiana?

    I found The Standing Domestic Relations Procedural Order: What You Need to Know from the Alaska Divorce Blog. Here are three things that I think ought to apply in Indiana:

    1. Canceling the utilities on the family home. If you move out of the home by choice or because of court order, you should not cancel the utilities on the family home. If you do not want to continue to pay the utilities, then you should discuss this with your attorney.

    2. Allowing the mortgage on the home to become delinquent. Under no circumstances should you allow the mortgage on the home to become delinquent. This would jeopardize your credit and could be viewed as endangering a marital asset.

    3. Allowing car payments or credit cards to become delinquent. Under no circumstances should you allow any marital debt to become delinquent. Damaging credit while a divorce is pending is a factor a court would consider in equitably dividing marital assets.
    Wow, this might create a deterrent some very stupid divorce games.


    Prenup Related Litigation

    An item from San Jose Mercury News that did not published during my hiatus. How would this play in Indiana? Probably about the same. Although I am thinking of this as being tried before a judge under a divorce case, I am not so sure that a jury of Hoosiers would be greatly impressed with the ex-wife.

    Jury rejects Peter Morton's ex-wife's money claims -
    Tarlton Morgan claimed in a 2007 lawsuit that her ex-husband cheated her out of the full value of her 1 percent interest in the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino, worth about $5 million, because he didn't tell her he had purchased land next door which increased the value of the resort.

    Tarlton Morton got the stock in 1994 in exchange for giving up a yearly $100,000 payment by Morton as part of a prenuptial agreement, said her attorney Paul Nelson. The suit alleged breach of fiduciary duty, intentional misrepresentation and invasion of privacy.

    Peter Morton testified that he paid her a fair price for her stock, paid more than $2 million in alimony until April 2004, and provided a fashionable Los Angeles home where she lived rent-free.

    ***
    Nelson said the jury's finding was "not what we'd hoped for," but
    added that Tarlton Morton might get some relief when a judge hears her claim for unjust enrichment.

    "We're very gratified," Nolan said. "Mr. Morton has been more than generous to his ex-wife."


    Divorce Take Care of Your Joint Debt

    Those of you thinking about doing your own divorce read Complications with joint credit card debt after divorce:

    "The best way to avoid future debt issues is to make sure there is no joint debt remaining at the end of your marriage. So while you are still married you should establish credit in your individual name. You also need to determine any and all outstanding individual and marital debt. One way to do this is by requesting a credit report from each of the three major credit-reporting agencies (Transunion, Equifax and Experian). Detailed in these reports will be a listing of your various accounts, the date each was opened, the credit limit or loan amount, and the account balance and payment history.You can request this information for free online at www.annualcreditreport.com or by phone at 1-877-322-8228 from each of these agencies once every 12 months.
    From earlier this year reports of divorces postponed centered around the debt issue. Dividing debts occurs more often in my cases than custody disputes, maybe even more often issues about dividing property.

    If you are doing this yourself, then make sure you get the debts divided before the divorce is final.